Vicki Gunvalson is taking to her blog this week to defend Tamra Judge’s former friend Ricky Santana. Vicki insists by inviting Gretchen Rossi and Ricky to her birthday that she was not planning a set-up. Gunvalson also talks about why she reached out to Tamra for coffee and slams Shannon Beador for involving herself in Tamra and Vicki’s relationship.
“Now onto this weekâ€™s episode. I have to say, it made me really sad to see where David and Shannon are in their marriage. It was only a year ago when they renewed their vows, and I am sad to see where they are now and hope they can turn it around and make it work. I know that when one partner is stressed, it puts a strain on the relationship and a disconnect in the marriage. I encourage Shannon to stop complaining and stressing out to David, as it seems like he just wants peace in the home and happiness.
Shannon, Eddie and my birthdays are only a few days apart so it was interesting seeing all three of us celebrate in different events. Years ago, we would have all been together and due to this ridiculous fighting, we are all apart which makes me sad. I wish we could all move on and just agree to disagree and stop hurting one another.
When I decided to call Tamra to ask her to go get coffee it was because Iâ€™m tired of the fighting and I wanted to make amends. She is blaming me for something that she already knew about and just because I discussed it with Kelly that should not make her angry. I want to tell her my side of the story, but I doubt she will listen. Tamra knew about this â€œrumorâ€ in 2011 when she was dating him. She has been doing everything she can to alienate me with my friends and we werenâ€™t even speaking when Kelly and I talked about it. I donâ€™t know why she canâ€™t let it go and move on. She has continued to make me uncomfortable at events that I see her at and it needs to stop. Tamra has lied about me to the ladies to get attention off her own problems and I want it to stop.
When I saw Tamra talking to Shannon about her and I meeting and seeing Shannon shaking her head â€œno donâ€™t do itâ€, I was in shock. Why the heck does Shannon have any influence on whether Tamra and I meet? Shannon has only known Tamra for a few years and she has â€œglobbedâ€ onto her like a little school girl. What is going on here? Does anyone else wonder why Shannon does not want Tamra and I to reconcile? Is Shannon afraid of Tamra â€œswitching teamsâ€?
Kudos to Lydia for sticking up for Kelly on the walk with Meghan. I was super proud of Lydia to be unemotional but to the point on whatâ€™s right is right and I couldn’t agree with her more. Itâ€™s interesting to me to see Meghan get upset when she is called out on being mean about Kellyâ€™s marriage, but doesnâ€™t like it when anyone discusses her marriage. Meghan has butted in everyoneâ€™s business but doesnâ€™t want anyone butting in hers. I like Meghan, I think sheâ€™s nice but she has a lot of â€œlife lessonsâ€ to learn and as far as Iâ€™m concerned and I would never confide in her with anything because she would never be sacred with the information.
Now onto my 55th birthday partyâ€¦it was so nice for me to celebrate with my sister Lisa, my brother Billy, my mother-in-law from my first marriage, my sister-in-law, Steveâ€™s mother, Steveâ€™s children, and my children. I had so many friends come from all over to celebrate with me which really made me feel good. Iâ€™m proud of my home and what I have been able to do on my own and it was so much fun to show it off. Didnâ€™t the backyard look fabulous?
Dating Steve has been such a smooth transition with our families and that is one of the reasons why I love him so much. One of the biggest hurdles many couples have when they get older whether itâ€™s dating or marrying is the blending of the families which fortunately has gone smoothly for us. My kids and grandkids really respect and love him a lot which means so much to me. Iâ€™m a hopeless romantic and when I said â€œI have it right this timeâ€, I think I do. Steve and I are not jumping into marriage, as we both have gone through that before and as of now we are extremely content with where we are.
It was fun for me to have Jeana Keough, Lizzie, Gretchen, Slade and Ricky at my party. I met Ricky years ago through Tamra, and as you witnessed in this episode Ricky was Tamra and Eddie’s best man. We both saw the love Eddie has for Tamra and the love she has for him when they got married and I have no desire to hurt either one of them. This â€œrumorâ€ about Eddie has been circling around for years and personally I donâ€™t care either way because it doesn’t affect me. As I mentioned last week, I donâ€™t care about his past, I donâ€™t care if he is gay or bisexual or not. I like Eddie, he seems like a great guy and the fact that he and Tamra love each other is all that matters. Question I have is why canâ€™t Tamra handle this topic of conversation like a mature adult?
I invited Ricky because Gretchen said he heard about my party and wanted to come. That was it. There was NO ulterior motive, no set up, no preplanning of anything. The party was for me to celebrate turning 55 and I had no desire to even mention Tamra or Eddieâ€™s name because they werenâ€™t there and they werenâ€™t invited. When Ricky revealed that he saw Eddie â€œmaking out with another manâ€ I was shocked. Ricky and Eddie had been friends way before Tamra met him and now they are not. I have no idea why they had a falling out, nor do I want to know the details, but they did. Regarding this mess, a rumor is a rumor, and I donâ€™t know why Ricky would say he saw this if itâ€™s not true. Prior to Ricky revealing this, I had no facts surrounding this rumor, but now that Ricky said he saw themâ€¦is that another rumor or a fact?”
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