Tamra Judge: Vicki Is Good At Throwing Her Friends Under The Bus


Tamra Judge is telling us what happened when the cameras were down on this week’s episode of the RHOC in her blog this week. Judge explains why she sent that text to Kelly and says that Dodd’s big mouth is the reason this entire fight started. Tamra also reveals what Vicki told her when they were drinking that got her fired up and says that Vicki is good at throwing her friends under the bus.

“The aftermath of Kelly in Ireland was difficult for me. Her words hurt me so bad and I just wanted to remove myself from being around her the rest of the trip. I knew in time I would forgive her, I just wasn’t ready to move on. For a woman that is constantly making public scenes and crying about how she doesn’t want her daughter to hear about it, I was in shock that she would go there. Did I want to “kill her”? NO, just a figure of speech. But I’m sure she’ll take that comment and start playing victim as if I was really threatening her. Seems to be a pattern of hers. For instance in Kelly’s delusional blog last week she wrote, “Tamra is a very strong woman and she hit me hard”. You can ask everyone there if I hit her and they will tell you NO. Just another one of her lies. She lies so much she can’t keep her story straight.

I had to laugh at how Kelly said she was “joking” when she yelled at me to keep walking and how I came back as if I wanted to fight. Oh please! I hate to reuse old lines, but I have too. Kelly, does your ass ever get jealous of the s*** that comes out of your mouth? This girl can twist any situation. We have watched Kelly verbally abusive everyone. She has admitted she has anger issues yet doesn’t try to better herself or stop drinking. I have forgiven Kelly, I honestly feel sorry for her. Her life must be miserable for her to act like this. I hope she finds her happiness one day.

Milking a cow was something I had never done and will probably never do again. I knew Kelly and Meghan would be coming soon after we milked the cows and I told myself to not let her affect me. I did a good job of avoiding her for the most part. Kelly finally apologized and told me I was a good mom and a very forgiving person. It was nice of her to do that, but I was in no mood to talk about it. I had been crying all night and I needed to move on.

Vicki had been showing us her boobs the whole trip. I was pretty shocked when she pulled her blouse open at the dinner table in front of the staff, funny at the time, but pretty classless. Our final dinner was bizarre in many ways. Kelly had this victim attitude, often muttering words under her breath acting like everyone was out to get her. Very strange behavior. Shannon wanted to have a fun night, it was our last night and we had to head to the airport at 3 AM. We all decided we were just going to stay up. Kelly had told us that tequila is an upper, so Shannon started ordering shots for everyone…doubles. Trying to change the mood. I was not drinking and Shannon kept ordering shots for me too, but I didn’t drink them. I didn’t accuse Shannon of trying to get me drunk, I’m an adult, I’m responsible for what I put in my mouth. I knew she just wanted to have fun our last night. Especially since everyone had moved on from the drama.

I thought it was pretty crappy of Vicki to say, “Tamra could be behind trying to get Kelly drunk”. Making it out like it’s a big conspiracy. How dare you, I wasn’t even drinking or ordering drinks. It just goes to show no matter how forgiving and nice I am to Vicki she always stabs me in the back or tries to make me look bad. She talks behind everyone’s back including mine. We will get to that real soon.

After dinner I went back to my room to pack. 20 minutes later Kelly and Vicki came knocking on my door all dressed up and ready to go out. I did not want to go out with Kelly and chance her getting drunk and acting badly, I did not answer the door. They went across the hall to Shannon’s room (I could see through the peep hole), Shannon asked Kelly why all the sudden did she want to go out and drink after she was refusing to at dinner? Kelly started getting loud in the hall and Shannon closed her door. Shannon and Heather came to my room and we decided to go to the hotel pub. We were there for a while and I decided to text Vicki to see what she was doing. She said after having a few drinks with Kelly she went back to her room and was lying in bed, I told her to come meet us but I did not want to see Kelly. She got dressed and came to the pub. We were having so much fun. Then Vicki started telling me that Kelly had been talking badly about me for months. I asked her why? I’ve been so supportive of her and stuck up for her knowing she was not in a good place in her marriage. The more Vicki told me the more I was feeling like a fool for sticking up for her. I sent Kelly a text with a picture of me and Vicki and asked why she was talking badly about me? What had I done to her? She called Vicki a liar and told me she was on her way to my room.

When she got off the elevator I started taking to Kelly and she started crying telling me she had never said a bad thing about me. So who’s lying? You could see Vicki felt really uncomfortable and ran down the hall so she didn’t have to be confronted. Vicki was doing what she does best tossing her good friends under the bus. By the way Vicki ran off, I believe she was lying to try to get me mad at Kelly. It was so calculated! She knew Kelly had apologized to me and knew I would move on. Seems like Vicki doesn’t want me to be friends with Kelly. I wonder why?

3:20 AM we all got into the bus and Kelly instantly started in by telling Meghan, “I don’t know why everyone attacks me, I didn’t do anything to anybody, everyone can dish it out but can’t take it.” What planet does this girl live on? Like Shannon said, “I took it from you Kelly.” Does she forget how she’s attacked everyone on that bus? Shannon sat there while Kelly called her a c*** at dinner, I think she took it pretty well. Then she started screaming at everyone, I thought we resolved this in the hallway. Kelly said Vicki lied which didn’t shock me and we left it at that. Heather asked Kelly to “let it go”…but no! Calling Shannon a drunk, telling me I’m not nice, and we attacked her in the hallway. This girl! I never attacked her in the hallway. I just asked her about what Vicki had told me in a calm voice. Then she loses her s***, screaming SHUT UP, yet she was the only one screaming. Telling Shannon to go shave her face was so immature, she really does take things down to low level. Cutting down someone’s physical appearance is just horrible. Then there is Vicki that sits there and acts like she has nothing to do with it. Her big mouth was the reason the fight started.

Kelly now you know how I feel. For nine years I have been a loyal friend to Vicki and all she did was talk behind my back. I told the girls that after forgiving Vicki for the cancer lie I would be done with her if I found out she was talking behind my back again. Well guess what…you’ll have to wait until next week to hear what Vicki had been telling Kelly about everyone.”

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31 Replies to “Tamra Judge: Vicki Is Good At Throwing Her Friends Under The Bus”

        1. Hi Rain Sweetie, I’m fine exhausted but so pleased they are here. Went out to a garden centre this morning then out for lunch, now I’m wacked so am leaving them to it tonight. They only want a sandwich so that’s fine. My SIL was very brave and tried Haggis, she loved it so that was good, can’t stand it myself! Sad about them leaving tomorrow but I will be glad to take it easy for a few days! Love you, Xoxoxoxxo
          I am so pleased I don’t watch this shit show now (sorry for that but it’s what it is) what a mess OC is I just can’t understand how people will watch next year without major changes. I still think Shannon needs to get out before she is at their low level and can’t climb back out again!

    1. I have always known and said that it is Viki that whispers in everyone’s ear, to make Tamra look worse than she is. Tamra has a big mouth, yes. She is trying to change herself all the time. I know a lot of people don’t like her, but I do. Big difference between her and Viki, Tamra admitted that she vented at other people to somehow get the pain out of her own heart. Hurt people hurt others. She apologized to Alexix, and became friends with Lizzie and all of the other housewives she had problems with before. It shows how she struggles to make up for her mistakes, which Kelly, (yukkkkkkk) is light years away from ever learning. God, where do they find these people?
      But Tamra is aware of it now, and no one changes completely overnight.
      Viki has ALWAYS done and said things to all the girls about Tamra, even when she called her the best friend she ever had. Viki is evil, IMO. Viki figures why not put the blame on Tamra, her rep is bad, so everyone will believe it. The year Lizzie was on it showed it really well. I believe Tamra understands forgiveness. Forgiving someone does not require that we remain friends. We are not required to constantly put ourselves in line to be a target for someone’s cruelty to be Christian. It is time for this entire franchise to end, IMO. It’s just old and worn out.

  1. JMP Tamara is a baby Christian and in time the Lord will start to work on her heart if she is real ?
    cause so far she is making all Christians look bad by acting like like trailer trash there isn’t one single feather’s weight of morals in that woman
    as a baby she got wasted she didn’t guard her heart and walk with the lord by swearing fighting and getting wasted doing shots and she sure should not of done that on HW’s TV I believe she is showing herself as a Fake and using being a Christian to have a relationship with her daughter see sydney i have changed problem is Ireland showed Tamara the same witch she has always been is a Bully and mean drunk sure can dish it and can not take it when she is called out
    I am sure Tamara hit Kelly but to keep Tamara happy the girls are gonna cover for her and lie,

    1. I so agree missrox. This blog is laughable! Every single thing she said that Vicki and/or Kelly did Tamara has done multiple times. She acts like a crass, foul-mouthed bully and that remark about the yeast infection ice cream was cringe-worthy. Based on the previews of Tamara prancing around with her ass cheeks hanging out I am pretty sure it will not impress her daughter, just embarrass her. Tamra needs to look in the mirror!

    2. Yesss! She is giving Christianity a bad name for sure. I dont buy the reformed act, I just dont. She is the same old mean bully that she has always been.

      1. You’ve quoted God so many times yet you discredit someone else’s heart and devotion. Because YOU know what’s in their heart? Doesn’t seem very Christian of you dear . Thanks for the laugh

    3. Tamra is a disgusting, vile, manipulator.. It is no wonder that she has issues with her child.. someone that exhibits that kind of constant psychotic behavior.. wow, wouldn’t want them around my kid.. AND SHE HAD CRABS!

  2. OH SHUTTTTTT UP tamra, I choked on my daily dose of bullsh*t from you

    You’ve thrown way too many under the bus

    Miss hypocrite of the year

  3. I know it’s all about ratings and the show wants the public to see the over the top things. All I can say is I would love to see if Kelly has any friends from years ago beca0 her behaviour is so martyr like that I doubt she has any life long friends. I have three friends that I have had close friendship with since we were 13 yrs old that’s 40 yrs…why because 9 I don’t shit on my friends over and over and then apologize and do it again…crazy behavior

  4. 1. I am tired of Tamra playing victim. I am tired of her talk of being a Christian and what Jesus would want her to do. Leave His name out of this. You are making a mockery out of His name.
    2. Vicki is and always has been only about Vicki. We all saw this the first season and it hasn’t stopped. Why Tamra continues to trust her says more about Tamra than Vicki. Maybe she’s learned her lesson once and for all? Any wagers on this?
    3. Vicki used Kelly because nobody else could stomach her after last season. Kelly was stupid enough to think Vicki actually cared about her. The way Vicki ran away in that pub when Kelly was yelling showed Vicki’s true colors, which we all know are a putrid shade of vomit mixed with lye. And yes, lye, not lie, although if lies were a color…
    4. Enough with how much Kelly is hurting. Many people are hurting and don’t act like this. She is a disgusting excuse for a mother, setting a horrible example to her daughter. She is a horrible wife, constantly nit-picking and ragging on her husband. She is a gold-digging, manipulative, passive-aggressive, angry, jealous drunk who is clinging onto whatever comes her way. She has a hair-trigger temper, is incapable of feeling remorse and needs to go to rehab and then therapy and then anger management and then she needs to get divorced and life a “real” life and actually have to work for a living instead of working on her back, i.e., marrying men for their money.

    1. Oh Gigicat how I love it when you number your comments. I open the blog and see the numbers I go right to you. As usual I agree with everything you said.

  5. I just watched the candle store opening, and I thought Megan’s dress was lovely. I also like her in the pink blouse she was wearing in interview.
    What cracks me up, ( well, one of the many things about Viki, when I say “crack” I mean literally, not the funny kind ) is Viki and her victim role she CONSTANTLY plays. She says to Shannon “I have nothing more to say to you” Shannon says “OK” and Viki keeps talking. She is NEVER done “saying things” & making sure everyone knows how horribly she has been treated, now this accident was the most perfect thing that could have happened to her. She can use this for a long time now, to show, once again, how terrible everyone is to her.

  6. Tamra, you and your mean girl posse are nasty and really cause the fans to dislike this season. If the truth hurts, then admit it. You wouldn’t go ballistic about comments about you and your daughter’s relationship if the words didn’t ring partially true. Vicki has always been a medler. So have you. Both of you stir the pot. Who knew Meghan would be the likeable one!

  7. I sure would like to see Heather, Tamra, Shannon & Vicki gone. I wish they would bring back Lizzie, Alexis, Jeanna. They need to change the players quick, or this show is down the tubes.

  8. Girlfriend, I’ve been telling you for 8 years that Vicki is a skunk and she’s spraying all over you. Haven’t you heard me? I’ve been yelling at the TV at the top of my lungs.

  9. I have to disagree with Tamara on this one for one simple reason – Vicki has not friends. She doesn’t have a clue what friendship is. It seems that even off the show she has no friends. Kelly was her only friend in the beginning because they needed to add someone to be her “friend” on the show.

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