Tamra Judge Shares Current Feelings About Vicki Gunvalson

We thought we would never see RHOC stars Tamra Judge and Vicki Gunvalson act like friends again, so when the two had an emotional moment during last week’s episode, we were surprised.

Now, Tamra is sharing why she wanted to move forward with Vicki after Gunvalson claimed Judge’s husband Eddie was gay.

“Shannon [Beador] and I talked prior and I said, ‘Listen, I can’t carry this hostility and this anger,’ especially after I met with Vicki and that didn’t go well,” Tamra said. “After that, I sort of knew where my place was. We will never be friends, but, you know what? Maybe we can go out, go to Iceland, have fun, not get too deep about our friendship. That’s it. And that’s what we decided to do.”

As for Tamra’s reaction that she felt like Vicki chose Brooks over her?

“It was a really true moment,” Tamra told ET, adding that she was just trying to protect Vicki from Brooks. “I knew the guy was not good. So, I didn’t come after her like, ‘You’re a horrible person. Why are you with this guy?’ No. I was like, ‘Vicki, this guy’s not good for you.’ I kept warning her and warning her [and] instead of saying, ‘You know what? Thank you so much for being my friend.’ Instead, she just came after me.”

Tamra also revealed how she felt about Shannon calling Vicki a “liar” while the two were talking in Iceland.

“Shannon doesn’t have a mean bone in her body,” Tamra shared. “Shannon is the girl that I can call in the middle of the night and say, ‘This is going on in my life,’ and she will be there … She is the girl that will do anything for me.”

Tamra insisted that she’s closer to Shannon than she ever was with Vicki.

“Shannon’s gone through a lot of stuff, and a lot of people didn’t know,” she said. “I knew what was going on in her personal life. I got it … I’ve been in Shannon’s shoes before and I know Shannon doesn’t mean any harm. Yes, she’s expressive. But she has the purest heart, the sweetest person and we will be friends forever.”

Do you think Tamra and Vicki should make amends? Let’s discuss.

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17 Replies to “Tamra Judge Shares Current Feelings About Vicki Gunvalson”

  1. Tamra just “isn’t right”..she’s clueless..has no idea what it really means to be a Christian.. as far as Shannon goes.. she’s also a “lost soul” .. an alcoholic and Tamra isn’t a good example for her at all! Tamra had an affair with Eddie and abandoned Simon and her kids for him.. Shannon abandoned her marriage and her kids for her “affair with alcohol”..they are both going to have to crash and burn before they turn..tragedy may have to happen before the truth comes out about Eddie and the Alcohol!

    1. I guess you must know what it truly means to be Christian. Well, I guess you do you sound like a typical judgemental “Christian.” Ugh, puke.

      1. JJgal, I would not normally do this, but you are the one judging now. Check your own conscience before checking someone else’s.
        This is a panel where we post our thoughts on the housewives, not judge other bloggers.

    2. Every Christian’s walk is different. Just because we may not understand someone else, does not mean they are wrong. Be kind and try to look at situations without your own prejudices, it may lead to some understanding.

  2. Tamara & Shannon are not good for one another. They are not up-lifting or truth pointing with each other at all. Actually, all they bring to each other is putting icing on cake gone mouldy. Both are jealous, deceitful, unforgiving fools.

  3. I love hearing this about Shannon. It doesnt surprise me. I sensed she had a good heart even though she was emotionally unglued at times AND UNDERSTANDABLY SO. I pray Shannon gets through this divorce and goes on to find happiness. In the meantime I am so thankful she had a good friend in Tamra…

  4. Jesus hung out with sinners. He was the only human who remained, as the Son of God, unsullied by sin throughout his life as a man on Earth. A Christian believes the words, whether in the Bible or not that “Vengeance is mine sayeth the Lord.” He will be the judge, not us. We are all sinners. Those who feel they have the most to answer for are the ones who strive to keep with the teachings of Christ. Those of us who have had much difficulty, tragedy, and heart wrenching decisions to live with are those who need the protection of the Lord and his mercy. The Lord is merciful for all of those who repent, and those who do not yet know what it is they are in need of repenting for. Tamra takes a beating for publicly putting her soul in the hands of the Lord, while continuing to be human. What a shame, and what hypocrites are those who believe themselves better in any way than anyone else.
    I have always been a fan of Tamra’s. Simon was a dictator who wanted to chain Tamra to him, to choose what she thought, what to feel, who to befriend, and every other part of her that didn’t meet his ungodly standards of total control over her and his need for her to obey him and only him. He is not God, though he believed he had the same rights and power over her. Divorce is not always, and most certainly not in this case, abandonment of one’s children. She left the vicious, blasphemous, cruel, immoral and hypocritical person she married. We have a legal right to divorce our spouse, under any condition we find untenable.

    1. Great post as always 3D’s & so happy to see you here–one of my favorite people for sure. Yes, we serve a most loving & forgiving Lord, 1000% in agreement there. But, Jesus himself frowned upon hypocrites & it seems that Tamara is not all for the Lord. She bad mouths, holds grudges, is unforgiving & she uses vile language. Very little changes are noted. I also know that when one is a true follower of Christ, one wants to be more like Him & less like oneself. We are called to be His biggest representatives & to change our hearts & avoid sin. In simple words, less human & more Godly. Unfortunately, I fail to see that in Tamara, I wish I did. Not everyone who says “Lord, Lord is a true follower. I know we are babies at first in our walk with Him & then, like babies, we grow in our faith & spiritual journey. Somehow, Shannon does not portray she’s grown at all. She’s still the same & uses Him.
      So sorry 3D’s, that’s what I see.

  5. When Tamra stated that Vicki chose Brooks over her that was telling! Who saids that? Tamra has some real issues. Friendship is not a competition. I’m not excusing Brooks, I’m sick & tired of hearing that crap that happened a long time ago. So that means that Tamra has 2B #1 when Ur her friend? Sort of what Shannon is, a lapdog 4 her. What a delusional mind! That’s str8 up nuts. Tamra& Shannon get along bc they’re just a pair of bullies with air of grandiosity! They will look down at any 1 that disagrees with them. That reunion will be a drag out of this I’m sure! Shannon might need hormone replacement but she also needs psychiatric intervention. Her statement abt her husbands libido is indication of what she saids behind closed doors 2 him. It’s obvious he’s disgusted with her! It’s not a low libido but that he wants nothing 2do with her! I can’t say that I blame him. Living with her irrational outbursts must be a living hell! Tamar will turn on Vicki soon. She’s loyal 2no 1. She’s just a miserable person. Where did they get these awful ppl. Notice how some have healthy family relationships! Not these 2 monsters. We R encouaged 2 give our opinions. If it sounds judgemental well it’s our opinions. As far as using religion 4 a tagline well that’s just messed up if Ur such a poor example. It’s offensive 2 good Christian’s trying 2 live a good life! I’m out. Peace!

  6. We are all imperfect. You can love the Lord and still make mistakes. How many of you are perfect? Anyone? I do not agree 100% with any one of the HW. They each have good and poor qualities. Just like the rest of the human race. They are also edited by a tv show and we do not really know the true people in every way. Cracks me up how seriously some people take it.

  7. Hi again my fav person, always a pleasure. I, too wish it was about their “sane” lives, good get togethers, wonderful homes, trips where all got along, but that wont happen as most people love their negativity.
    I’m not ashamed to say I admire you greatly 3D’s, you have been through what no one should ever have to, yet, you stand tall & strong with the worst kind of heartache & stayed close to your biggest consoler, Our Lord. You could’ve gone the other way, but you didn’t & I call that true faith in the face of the ultimate worst.
    I know you will see your baby one day, I truly believe that.
    My own mom died of broken heart syndrome after my darling brother died from cancer. Her heart was also broken badly, yet not a day passed that she did not give Him thanks for every blessing.
    God continue to be with you always, you deserve it.

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