Tamra Judge Reacts to Co-Stars Questioning Whether Husband Eddie is Gay

Real Housewives of Orange County star Tamra Judge is reacting to her co-stars that questioned her husband Eddie Judge’s sexuality on this week’s episode of the show.

After the episode aired, Tamra took to Instagram to address the rumors that her husband is gay.

“How staged and wrong was that? The worst acting I’ve ever seen. They are nothing but homophobic bullies that think it’s okay to try and out a straight man hoping to humiliate him,” Tamra wrote to her followers. “Well guess what it didn’t work! It’s not the 1920’s and being gay is not something to be ashamed of or mocked. You should all be ashamed of yourself. Vicki was 100% behind this and I hope she loses her job just like Phaedra [Parks].”

“It’s so laughable that you have to poke fun,” Tamra wrote to one follower. “So who should win the academy award for this next scene? Had to be the worst acting #IThoughtSheKnew #setup #liars #shouldBeFired.”

Shortly after, Gretchen Rossi saw the post and wrote one of her own.

“Talk about reaching, this post takes the cake even for Tamra. Some of my dearest & best friends are part of the LGBTQ community…I am not homophobic in any way! No one was trying to ‘out’ anyone,” she explained. “By the reaction on all our faces no one could have anticipated what Ricky was going to say when asked if he knew if Eddie was gay (which I only asked him because I knew he had been best friends with Tamra for 13 plus years and if anyone he might know).”

Gretchen continued, “Besides it’s only ‘outing’ someone if he is actually gay….which she adamantly denies.”

Talk about reaching, this post takes the cake even for Tamra. Some of my dearest & best friends are part of the LGBTQ community…I am not homophobic in any way! No one was trying to “out” anyone….Kelly was only pointing out that Vicki didn’t start the rumor and Lizzie pointed out that Tamra has known about this rumor going around town for years. By the reaction on all our faces no one could have anticipated what Ricky was going to say when asked if he knew if Eddie was gay (which I only asked him because I knew he had been best friends with Tamra for 13 plus years and if anyone he might know) Besides it’s only “outing” someone if he is actually gay….which she adamantly denies and just for the record Vicki Did not set anything up!!

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  • Rain

    What a bunch of heifers !! Ugly women !

    • DaysofWineandRoses

      I’m still mad at Vicki’s cutout gown from the episode. I always embrace women who are bigger boned and not a size 2, but those side cut-outs coupled with that Struggle Roll trying to manifest itself on her back had me about to faint.

  • cat62

    I am on Eddie’s side.
    I don’t know about you but – I don’t share or talk about confidential info – or made up lies – in front of cameras that I know are there.

  • Stuart Cooper

    I am with Tamra and Eddie on this.

    Whether he is Bi, Curious, Straight, Gay. This is no ones business. It is cruel to “out” someone who doesn’t want to be outed.

    How can we trust the sources when both Gretchen and Ricky hate Tamra. Vicki just trying to take the heat of her by saying she didn’t start the rumour… she is still giving it life tho.

    Thanks

  • Cin

    not nice….. dump all these ladies and start anew

    • Cin

      ps…. no brainer – he’s gay.

  • Lisa Wyatt Martin

    Honestly tamra I knew from day one when you first were on housewives that you were a complete and total BULLY. It’s funny how you are throwing that word around playing the victim. Let’s see, you started off as the miserable trophy wife, then the poor me I’m abused wife, then the cougar, next it was I’m a Christian, then the business owner slash fitness know it all, then onto the poor me club of parents who’s kids ARE SMARTER THAN THEY ARE AND DON’T WANT ANYTHING TO DO WITH THEM. No wonder your daughter and ex-husband want nothing to do with you. You are seriously embarrassing and starving for attention. Like a heroine junky with a needle in their arm. You need that stardom, you want so desperately to be young and youthful again. It’s sad and pathetic. I feel absolutely no compassion for you. You’re getting what you deserve and I hope your daughter never let’s you back in because you chose filthy fame over HER! Let us not forget the obscene bathtub scene on the show, your many rants and crazy phyco screaming matches you would get into. The list goes one. You seriously should be ashamed of yourself. You’re a sorry excuse for a mother! Grow up old lady and get over yourself. You’re gross!

    • cat62

      WOW really? “Like a heroine junky with a needle in their arm”

    • KelliAnn

      Anyone else remember the episode “Naked Wasted”?
      Tamra is a nasty piece of work!

  • Minx

    Wretched Gretchen, Icky Vicki and Rotton Ricki were absolutely revolting.
    Rumors are maliciously created to ruin a person’s reputation, businesses and to put Marriages in jeopardy.
    Eddie seems like a great Man, regardless of his alleged sexual preference.I doubt that if Eddie is, in fact gay, that he would be afraid to be openly Gay. Eddie could have his pick,of any Gender!
    I also, doubt that Eddie would Marry a Woman if he preferred Men.
    Tamera and Eddie appear to have a healthy Realationship, regardless of whatever happens or doesn’t happen between them physically.
    This whole episode demonstrated the calculated Insanity of bitter people for ratings and revenge.
    Blindsiding and setting up a Former Friend under the Veil of ” Working Things Out” is Evil.
    I, know many don’t believe that Tamera has Changed for the better. Change, is gradual, sometimes subtle.
    Tamera, is light Years more kind than she was when she first began the OC Franchise. She has tried to work things out with Kelly, she doesn’t interact with Vicki. She has tried to convince Shannon to reach a truce, with well Everyone.
    These Woman have Strong Personalities.
    Vicki, has also changed, for the worst. You would think that Cancergate might of humbled her. No. She is more insane.
    Gretchen/ Spade (unhappy),Vicki Vindictive because of being ” Found Out”,
    Kelly( unhappily Married and as Batshyte Crazy as Vicki) playing both sides and Ricky? Where did they dig him out of?
    Vicki wants to Rebuild her Image by cutting down the Images of other. Lydia is clueless, apparently her Mom need to up her doses of Fairy Dust.
    That is my take.
    Peggy? One Cold, Materialistic Newbie who has no business ” telling others to sssshhhh..
    Seriously? Who does that? If she put her fingers or hands over my lips and shushed me?( in real life, on camera)
    I would have slapped her with a lawsuit.
    I Miss the RHONY..
    The OC, grates upon my last nerve!

  • Deborah Brenner

    I was disappointed in Gretchen. When she came on the show she was the one who was blindsided by the back stabbing. She didn’t know how to deal with it when Tamra and Vicki turned it on her because she wasn’t one to do it. She just sunk to their level. True or not, it doesn’t matter. The guy that actually said it is a real a**hole, and I want to know more about why he would say it. What did Eddie or Tamra do to him? Anything is possible with Tamra, the snake.

  • DaysofWineandRoses

    Every last one of these girls needs a time out! And while I do support Tamra & Eddie’s right to privacy about anything having to do with sexuality, I have to point out that there is a HUGE difference between what happened with Atlanta and the folks in OC: what Phaedra orchestrated and Porsha revealed on camera was false accusation accusation of FELONY that carries heavy jail time for a perpetrator.

    This is nasty gossip that I want Tamra to just dismiss as it will not hurt them, just please let it DIE. Trying to look for the speck in Vicki’s eye in this will only draw attention to the log in her own showing that its only been a few years since was publicly slamming one of her own male cast members as a “F*G”, which carried huge backlash that required quite a bit cleaning up her image afterwards. So it would behoove Tamra to proceed with caution in pursuing this narrative as yet another notch in the belt of her Standoff Storyline. There is far too much of her own offensive foolery from the past 10 years that will come back and bite her while she’s trying to create more spin and false outrage.

    As Tamra mentions Phaedra, she should also remember the ironic foreshadowing on RHOA when the Christian Southern Belle sat on camera in all her faux pious glory declaring her personal interpretation of Psalm 7:15 (and the famous gospel song by Mahalia Jackson), “Be careful of the grave that you dig for ME, because you might fall in it yourself”…just saying, Gurl….you might want to think this through…

    • justanothermary

      I still believe that Vicki’s cancer scams are the lowest things I’ve ever seen on any of these shows. The fact that Bravo still pays her makes me sick. There have been a lot of really horrible things done between the women on this show but no one is lower or more vile than Vicki.

      • Rain

        Totally agree

  • DaysofWineandRoses

    Oh, but in other completely unrelated news to this story, Tamra’s facelift is POPPIN’! She really had good work done! When I was watching the episode, I notice how different she looked, you could see her mother’s face in hers, in an aged kind of way. Most times I don’t care for Tamra, but I can keep that totally separate from how good she looks, lol

  • timdun

    I like Eddie. It doesn’t matter if the rumor is true or not it was wrong for this guy to say it on national television. But, if the rumor was about Vicki’s boyfriend or husband you can’t tell me that Tamra wouldn’t be right in the middle of it loving every moment.

    • Starr

      Exactly, timdun, Exactly!!!

  • Aunt Bee

    Jeana Keogh was almost unrecognizable.

    • timdun

      I was shocked when I saw her. I also didn’t know it was her until she started talking (and they flashed her name on the screen). I’m sorry but the work she had done wasn’t an improvement.

  • Max

    I like Vicki, Kelly, Gretchen and Lizzie and guess what?Sometimes I even like Tamra, I wish they could all get along!! Get rid of Peggy, Lydia and Meghan!!

    • timdun

      What about Shannon?

      • Max

        She can go, I don’t care…I’m actually tired of her boring storyline with her husband!!

  • KelliAnn

    Wow. Tamra has the effing nerve to say someone should be fired from the show! Anyone remember the episode “NAKED WASTED”????

    Uh, who should be fired? TAMRA! You encouraged your son to DATE RAPE Gretchen!!!!

  • Frank Van Der Heijden

    Maybe he is, maybe not, maybe he swings both ways

  • Stuart Cooper

    Thanks 🙂

  • Stuart Cooper

    Thanks

  • Starr

    I feel so bad for Eddie, he does not deserve this–at all. But I guess being with that trash bag Tamara, it goes with the territory. When you roll about in dung, I guess you must smell too.

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