Tamra is taking to her Bravo Blog to discuss the drama between her, Gretchen and Alexis. Tamra says that Gretchen made her feel terrible for inviting Alexis to go wedding dress shopping, and she writes that Gretchen holds grudges against people!
Tamra writes, “Now looking back, I seeÂ LauriÂ really has an agenda and wants to bring Vicki DOWN. I had heard that Brooks had been seen out on a few dates around town but I had NEVER heard that he was paying a young girl. I am mad at myself for entertaining the conversation. At that time I had not heard that she was saying other things about Vicki. I find it strange that she came back to try and ruin Vicki, yet she is so nice to Vicki’s face.
When I metÂ AlexisÂ for lunch I told her that we should keep things between us for a while because I didn’t want any outside influences. I wanted to get to know Alexis and try and bond on things that we DO have in common and not dwell on the things that we DO NOT have in common. It was hard for me to tellÂ GretchenÂ that I made peace with Alexis, and she really made me feel horrible when she heard I invited her.
I invited everyone to my dress shopping day because it was MY day and I COULD! I did not expect anyone to have a problem with it. Gretchen had no problem being at the Salsa Party with Alexis and even gave her a hug goodbye. I was so confused and even considered rescinding the invitation to make Gretchen happy. Gretchen was right, I was not extremely close to Alexis at the time — but I was trying to move on and get her more involved in the group of girls. I did not have drama on my mind. I had dress shopping on my mind.
Here is the biggest difference between me and Gretchen: I forgive, forget, and move on. I do not hold a grudge like her. People make mistakes, no one is perfect. But, it is very hard to move on with someone when they wont let things go.”
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