This week on The Real Housewives of New Jersey, the drama continued over the cake Siggy Flicker had made for Melissa Gorga’s birthday.
After Teresa Giudice and Melissa were having a little bit of fun throwing the $1,000 cake around, Siggy was livid, as she felt disrespected by her friends.
â€œSo f*cking classy,â€ Flicker said. â€œWeâ€™re going to have to explain to the restaurant that weâ€™re from Jersey.â€
â€œMy IQ is a lot higher than these girls. Since you guys act like animals, Iâ€™m going to act like an animal too. You girls can go f*ck yourselves,â€ Flicker continued, telling her BFF,Â Dolores Catania, â€œNext time you bring your friends to my f*cking town, you better make sure they donâ€™t act like this.â€
Siggy’s words really offended Teresa, Melissa, Danielle Staub and new Housewife, Margaret Josephs.
â€œWe were playing, we were having a good time,â€ Melissa said, telling Teresa that a cake fight was â€œwhat youâ€™re supposed to do when itâ€™s somebodyâ€™s birthday.â€
â€œHow dare she say sheâ€™s more intelligent than all of us,â€ Danielle said. â€œSiggyâ€™s behavior screams control freak. She controlled everything: the cake, where we were going to eat. But the moment we started to have fun and she lost control? She lost her sh*t.â€
â€œI think she owes us an apology. I never saw her act like this,” Margaret Josephs added.
But there was no stopping Siggy’s feelings.Â â€œWe were all a little drunk last night but thatâ€™s no excuse for throwing a cake. I feel humiliated, I feel disrespected,â€ she admitted. â€œIâ€™m always thinking about everybody elseâ€™s feelings and wanting to do the best for everybody else and no one was thinking about my feelings.â€
â€œI canâ€™t get my head around the fact that I put my heart and soul into making this weekend perfect for my friends and in return, my friends embarrass me,â€ she continued. â€œWhat happened last night to me was crossing a line.â€
Siggy didn’t join Gorga, Giudice, Staub and Josephsâ€™ morning yoga beach party and met up with them later at her friendÂ Lori Konskerâ€™s house for a fun afternoon.
â€œBefore we go inside, I want you to know I felt like last night I think things got a little bit too far,â€ Siggy told the girls prior to entering Konskerâ€™s house. â€œThat cake was flung halfway through the room and Iâ€™m hoping that tennis rackets go flying. Weâ€™re going to my friendâ€™s house, please f*cking respect it, okay?â€
This didn’t sit well with Melissa.Â â€œI feel like Iâ€™m being schooled,â€ Gorga told viewers. â€œI am classy but I really want to tell you to go f*ck off.â€
At a later dinner at Siggy’s house, Melissa finally told Flicker how she felt.Â â€œYou really thought that after just us being playful with a cake we were going to apologize to you and apologize for us being playful?â€ Melissa asked. â€œ[Teresa]Â putting a little cake on me was just fun.â€
â€œWhy didnâ€™t you call either me or Melissa and apologize to us for the derogatory things that you said,â€ Teresa added, referring to Siggy’s IQ and diss on being from Jersey.
â€œMargaret was trying to make light of it like, â€˜Oh Siggy itâ€™s not a big deal,â€™ So I said â€˜Go f*ck yourself. It is a big deal.â€™ Why is it that Iâ€™m not allowed to have feelings?â€ Siggy asked.
This set Margaret off.Â â€œWhat if it was like a real crisis? What reaction would you have?â€ Josephs said. â€œI donâ€™t cry over that. Why cry about a cake? Siggy, better known as â€˜Soggy Flickerâ€™ with all the crying.â€
â€œYou have no compassion. Youâ€™re like an ice princess,â€ Siggy fired back.Â â€œSo is everybody going to kiss Teresaâ€™s ass? You want to crawl up her ass right now? Because you guys were invited here, youâ€™re my guests!â€ Siggy addressed the group. â€œYou donâ€™t get it.Â Let me be a kindergarten teacher â€™cause you guys are not getting it. Your points, to me, are stupid.â€
â€œWeâ€™re not judging you, why are you judging us?â€ Gorga snapped. â€œDonâ€™t say IQ, donâ€™t say stupid, donâ€™t say we donâ€™t understand.Â Oh my God, remind me to go out with fun people the next time I go out on my birthday!â€
â€œIÂ expect my friends to have a level of class when youâ€™re in a public restaurant,â€ Siggy said. â€œI knew people in this restaurant. This is my town. You can continue going out and acting like trash if you want to.â€
â€œThereâ€™s two things that you do not call women in Jersey. Stupid or trash,â€ Gorga said.
â€œThatâ€™s f*cking wrong. Siggy, you donâ€™t refer to your friends and people youâ€™re having dinner with as trash,â€ Danielle added over dinner. â€œI canâ€™t hear trash. Iâ€™m not f*cking trash. Never use that word in my presence again!â€
Teresa stood up and said, â€œNo one calls me and my sister-in-law trash. Sorry Iâ€™m out of here.â€
â€œYou know what this proves to me? They donâ€™t really give a sh*t about me,â€ Siggy concluded. â€œWe started off the weekend as four friends. Twenty-four hours later two people came in, sneaky Margaret and crazy Danielle, and next thing you know, thereâ€™s a dissensionÂ here. What happened?â€
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