Shannon And David Beador Continue To Work On Their Marriage

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On this week’s episode of The Real Housewives of Orange County, Shannon Beador and her husband David continued working on the trust in their marriage.

When the couple’s daughters asked David how is day was he explained, “It went better tonight because your mommy was upset with me yesterday and last night and this morning and pretty much all day today because I didn’t respect her enough and call her when I told her I would.”

“There’s a little bit more than that,” Shannon adds. “Let’s not exaggerate it.”

She confesses, “If David feels that I’m being unreasonable he should talk to me about that in private, not in front of our kids. My children don’t need to hear any negativity. They have been through enough.”

Shannon vents to David, “Sometimes that’s frustrating for me when you tell the kids I’m upset, because you didn’t call when you said because you’re giving the kids the impression that’s the only reason why I was mad and that sounds silly.”

“I asked David to compile a list of all of the restaurants that he went to with the affair because I didn’t want to be surprised anymore and anymore locations where I might have known somebody or one of my friends might have been,” Shannon explains. “I just wanted to get it all out there. Each time you hear it it’s like a knife in your heart.”

Watch the show highlight below.

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38 Replies to “Shannon And David Beador Continue To Work On Their Marriage”

  1. Maybe she should also ask him for a full list of locations where he had sex with her and also the positions, just in case… she don’t repeat it…

    1. Shannon is never going to let this affair go. Compiling a list is just crazy town. Giving him a time out for days and nights is not a path to forgiveness. While you can’t unring that bell, David will never be forgiven and if a person is constantly in trouble he is going to move on with someone who is not going to remind him he’s a skunk every five minutes.

    2. Yikes, could not agree more. Her failure to recognize that her demand for the list of all restaurants David took his paramour(s) is toxic.

  2. Shanon for crying out loud Your marriage is over. How come you are the last to realize that? One cannot rebuild trust. Doubts will always pop up . Just clean up the mess and get on with your life.

  3. Compile a list?? Is that Looney? What’s up with David? Why would he say that to his girls, or is it more for the camera’s, it’s pretty obvious he wants nothing to do with the show, I would love to know what he said when he shut the door in his daughters face. I don’t think the relationship crystals r working, I’d flush them down the toilet!

  4. I like Shannon as a person but wow, they need to divorce. It also seems like the daughters are picking up some bad habits from their high-strung, emotionally unstable mother.

  5. Shannon get over it and move on or let David go. Your a freak. Poor David. You treated him like a dog. I would have done the same. David is a good guy. He deserves to be treated better. You will turn your girls against you too as soon as they realize what a control freak you are. People have affairs everyday because they have spouses like yourself. You drove him to do it. You need to look in the mirror if you want to keep your family. You are the one ruining it . NOT David.

    1. That comment is so wrong, people have affairs because they chose to do so. NOT because a spouse made them. By your logic people are fat because of fast food. You have NO clue what you are talking about.

    2. What are you talking about!! David entered into a committed relationship when he and Shannon got married. If he can’t control his urges that’s on him NOT Shannon. If he wants to screw around get a divorce BEFORE doing so – he hurt his wife and kids and if he cares to stay in his marriage he should be working on rebuilding trust – not making Shannon look like a moody bitch to his kids!

  6. These two really need to separate…if not for a break to get their $hit together or to divorce. My opinion is that because Shannon is such a control freak she is NEVER going to forgive, forget, and move on. David already knows that. Is it me, or did anyone else get that shady vibe from him all along?

  7. David is a jerk, first pretending he didn’t hear his daughter calling his name repeatedly and secondly closing the sliding door in her face. I like Shannon but her bringing this crap up constantly is way too much.

  8. How will it help Shannon to know if maybe he took his gf to a restaurant maybe Shannon liked or maybe wanted to go to or not. He has to know that if he gave her any names, she would rub each in his face and say, Now I can never set foot in there again! Etc. She will berate him over and over and relive the affair each time. He will think of the girl again too. This will never help, but further alienate him from the family. I am not on his side either. I like Shannon, but though she says she wants to make the marriage work, she isn’t just trying to put it in the past and working on it with the help of a counselor. Her husband had one or several affairs. He escaped his home and put her in the back of his mind each time he was with the other woman. He knows how to do that. Now they each have to learn how to communicate without constant guilt trips and not involve the children or it is truly over.

  9. I’m sorry it’s only been 6 months maybe a tad more. Unless you have been in her shoes who are you to tell her to get over it. I have been in her shoes and it really does take a long time for healing. But David has to do his part to help her to hell. He is the one to cause the pain he has to help fix it. You do the crime you deal with the consequences. He has to put in the effort to rebuild her trust. It seems a lot of people may have known about the affair that is why she does not want to go to the same restaurants he took his mistress to. Again it will take more than 6 months to just get over something like this. David is a jerk grow some balls own up to it. Stop being such a dam baby! A real man wouldn’t cheat! And if he did realize it was a huge mistake be up for the labor of winning your wife, marriage, & family back! You made your bed now deal with it.

  10. I’m sorry it’s only been 6 months maybe a tad more. Unless you have been in her shoes who are you to tell her to get over it. I have been in her shoes and it really does take a long time for healing. But David has to do his part to help her to hell. He is the one to cause the pain he has to help fix it. You do the crime you deal with the consequences. He has to put in the effort to rebuild her trust. It seems a lot of people may have known about the affair that is why she does not want to go to the same restaurants he took his mistress to. Again it will take more than 6 months to just get over something like this. David is a jerk grow some balls own up to it. Stop being such a dam baby! A real man wouldn’t cheat! And if he did realize it was a huge mistake be up for the labor of winning your wife, marriage, & family back! You made your bed now deal with it and not through your children!

  11. Shannon is mentally ill. She is too old to be acting like a 16 year old high school girl. Stop airing your dirty laundry on television WHEN YOU HAVE CHILDREN. Your kids come first, not your need to be seen on tv. Your husband wants out. Let him go already. Then you can join the other divorced witches at Quiet Woman, Tommy Bahama or Maestro’s and drink too much and wonder why you are alone.

        1. That’s exactly what she sounded like. News flash they never leave the wife for the mistress. Even if the marriage doesn’t work they find someone other than the mistress.

      1. Sorry people. Been married for over 30 years. First marriages for both of us. No affairs. Live in Corona del Mar and know these places well. And have seen some of the other RHOC ex’s roaming around looking desperate. Those three places are prime hunting locales. I live here. I know. Newport and surrounding area is very small. It’s not LA. Nobody gets away with too much cuz there is always someone around who knows you. I find it horrible parenting to not want to protect your children first and foremost instead of thinking about your fame and fortune. David checked out a while back. She’s hanging on by a thread. It’s embarrassing and her children are going to end up in therapy over this blatant disregard for them.

    1. You got it. Why would you want to air your dirty laundry ? Why not give up the show to save your marriage. And yes I have been in her shoes and have realized I was the one that drove my husband away. What the nut job is doing is putting her life on display for money and is ruining her family. Seriously him not calling when he is supposed to??.
      Perhaps he is working to provide you with the lavish lifestyle you want to buy your lemons. She should have dropped the show like a hot Potatoe.

    2. You got it Gigi. I’m thinking the nut job was the one that told her kids. She said she found out when the kids were at school . She is the ones that brought the kids into it. She needs a reality check and ditch the lemons and get tuned into reality

  12. Shannon you will never get past this if you keep obsessing over it. You have to forgive and move on your not moving on girl!

  13. People you forget at this point it has only been 6 months, I’m sure they are in therapy weekly and are working through this. I’m sure you look back and think “I wish I hadn’t done that” or “I should have left that alone”. however it is not our journey to repair their marriage and it makes me sad so many think marriage is disposable or because she struggles at times capturing her thoughts they should just divorce. This isn’t just a boyfriend or man she lives with. This is her husband of how many years and the father to her children. I think it is commendable they are trying to work it out.

      1. It truly baffles me that people expect her to just get over it and or dispose of a marriage because someone is imperfect and messes up. There are so many dynamics to healing from an affair it just doesn’t go away in a few months. They are also only showing the arguments and strain, it’s not like that 24/7.

  14. It is obvious to me that David does not want to be in the marriage! And Shannon is acting very odd. PLEASE go your separate ways, this is not interesting watching you two, it is a little creepy!

  15. There are lots of shows this could be on. I don’t watch housewives to watch couples therapy. So, I just zip all of it and all of the Viki stuff, which leaves me very little show. Then Heather making dinner and tending to a child having a tantrum, hmm, what’s left? Grandma Tamra. This show belonged somewhere else besides my DVR.

    1. So you watch reality TV about people’s lives but don’t want to see their lives? Turn the channel and don’t comment. Problem solved.

  16. I like Shannon very much. But, it’s either she’s willing to forgive & begin the healing process of forgetting or she can keep up with holding on to her pain & putting more stipulations on to David of which will drive him back to the woman. She is hanging on to every petty happening & bringing it to his attention. He looks like a defeated man right now & trying his hardest. I’ve not been in her position & I imagine it must be heart wrenchingly devastating & the hardest thing to cope with. But, if she wants the marriage to work, she has to accept & move forward or else make the decision for them to separate. I wish them both the best.

  17. Watching this season I keep thinking back to last season, with the new knowledge that all the housewives knew of the affair. I wonder if Terry’s ‘penis’ rermark and David just taking it was about the affair no one was talking about. Shannon had made Heather her punching bag as she dealt with the pain and David let Shannon think she was crazy. Terry had to watch as his wife had to shoulder the blame when everyone but viewers knew the real story.

    The marriage is a toxic wreck, it doesn’t matter if it is only 6 months since the affair, the disrespect from both sides is so apparent. I find them both dislikeable.

  18. Cringe every time they have a scene. Get rid of him already. She is so sad and he is so gay. Get on with your true lives. And for GODS sake, stop talking “therapy” to your little kids!!!

  19. On the subject of men cheating and the reference to not wanting their wives…It is not the case for many men. They want the affair, and they want to come home to the wife and children. They even say they love their wives and mean it. (Yes, it seems off) They want their children to respect them…and for life to remain status quo. They just don’t want to get caught. They want the duplicity. A man once told me…to my surprise at that time, You marry the one you are compatible with, not the one who rocks your world…when we discussed another man who everyone knew had always had affairs (he took his young mistresses out in public with his friends) and his wife knew about the mistress, and she still stayed married to him. The mistress was always young, so he didn’t have the same one for too long. The couple was also extremely wealthy and had many homes. He traveled the world as he pleased with his friends, etc. I never met his wife but saw him out at a benefit with his mistress.
    With women the affair may be for missing love or just wanting more intimacy not in the marriage, and for them, they may want to stay with their affair more often. For men it is not quite the same. I know people married over 50 years, and the husband was a cheater for most of the marriage. The husband got caught several times, but they stayed together. It is more common than many know about. I don’t condone it either. I just saw far too much of it in my lifetime and certain cultures are far more likely to have this happen as well. The men like women too much and go out. Wives stay home and tend to the children…

    I don’t believe in breaking up a family unless the love is gone and there is incompatibility, but that is for the couple to resolve. We really cannot say leave the cheater to anyone. It isn’t so cut and dry. They have to try to work it out somehow.

    1. Sandra, that was very enlightening, I’ve never looked at that way before, I guess it isn’t cut and dry. Now your making me think about this differently. Hmm

      1. Thanks. I have seen couples break up over affairs, and the husband usually wants the marriage more than the wife, though he is the cheater. It is complicated. Wives sometimes know and put up with it, since their husband’s sex drive is more than they can handle too. Of course there are risks involved. A husband was caught when his own teen child saw him in his sports car with his gf. Another time, a call about a car accident from the other party involved, asking the wife if she was okay…and the wife who answered the phone said sure, I am fine, though she realized at that moment that her spouse was in the car accident with another woman and just told her he was in an accident. I am not condoning it, nor am I one of them. I have heard from friends, relatives and acquaintances and heard their stories.
        I guess, like I said, it is more common in some cultures where men sew their wild oats more than they should…sad, but true.

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