Scheana Talks Clashing With Shay At Vanderpump Rules Reunion

Vanderpump Rules star Scheana Shay will reunite with her ex-husband Mike during part three of the reunion which airs Monday night.

Scheana is revealing that things had gotten much worse between the couple since the last time we saw them film and before they saw each other on reunion day. “We hadn’t spoken for about a month-and-a-half before [the reunion], and it wasn’t an amicable last conversation we had,” Scheana told The Daily Dish.

Scheana explained that Stassi Schroeder had tweeted something prior to the reunion after Scheana gave her blessing that angered Shay, which she later quote tweeted and then responded to. “I just wasn’t in a good place at the time, and I just didn’t care. And I felt like, ‘Well, you hurt me, and now I’m gonna hurt you.’ Sometimes I operate that way, and it’s not a good quality of mine, but I was very hurt,” Scheana said. “So [Shay] saw that and had screenshot it and sent it to me and basically said, ‘Eff you. Don’t ever contact me again.’ And I was like, ‘OK.’ I responded and just said, ‘Thank you for hurting me as much as you possibly could. And best of luck to you. I hope you get help. I know everything.’ And I kind of just left it at that.”

Scheana never thought it would be as difficult as it was to come face-to-face with Shay. “And then right when they talked about like, ‘After this break, Mike Shay will be here,’ I was like, ‘Oh my God.’ I had a full-blown panic attack. I was like, I need a shot or I need something. I was just freaking out, and I didn’t think I was going to be so emotional. But it was just everything coming back at once, and it was really difficult,” she said. “And then I see him and he’s sitting right in front of me, and he looked so different. Like, his shoulders were really buff and he had his ears pierced and his hair was different. I was just like, ‘Who are you?'”

“James and Jax were the funniest part of the whole day. Like, every time I would start to have a little bit of an anxiety attack, they would just make me laugh and then they high fived, and I’m like, ‘What is going on here?’ And then James crawling on the floor. It was just so comical,” Scheana explained. “It was the comic relief I needed that day because I knew Shay wasn’t until the end of the day. So all day at lunch and everything, it’s just in the back of my mind. And then that day, I burned my hand at lunch. So then I’m dealing with being in physical pain on top of emotional pain. It was just a very difficult day for me, but the comic relief helped a lot.”

Although the day was a hard one, Scheana says it helped her move on. “It was weird, but I think that day did bring some closure to me, at least,” she said.

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  • Real Sandy

    Well, I guess I have to see Part 3 to really comment on this one.
    Just reading that Mike Shay looked buff, in Sheana’s words, made me think that he is getting healthier, and that is a good sign that he is trying to take care of himself perhaps. He looked terrible when they filmed that divorce scene (3 months) after the wedding of Tom and Katie.
    Sheana is too shallow and self absorbed in my opinion, and it was always a one sided relationship with little understanding of her partner, from what I have seen. She was not empathetic to his (alcohol/drugs) troubles, and the world revolved only around Sheana and her wants, like not being able to be around a person who did not drink alcohol…really.
    From the day of her wedding, I could see how little it was about anyone but her. She was a bridezilla, and I don’t think it changed. She would drive just about anyone to drink.
    Well, I certainly hope they both move on and learn from this, and I wish Shay a lot of luck. I am not saying he was perfect, but they will be better off apart than together.

    • Cin

      agree Sandy…. it’s always been about Sheana. I do wish she would stop the valley girl ”like” stuff.

    • Bobbi Burton

      I agree she’s a self absorbed narcissistic chit…All this pain and I burned myself at lunch…On what, a piece of lettuce…And wah wah wah. My opinion is he sobered up and realized he had to be drunk to like her…Or used her to make connections for his music…He sure came across I that final episode badly with his what did you do for me other than support me financially, you never cooked for me…And wah wah wah! I mean she makes the back and is supposed to cook it to?

      • Bobbi Burton

        Makes the bacon, not back. Must be time for bed since it’s after 4am…I have insomnia and hate it but love these blogs cause it really helps!

  • watching in ohio

    She’s a will never have a lasting relationship with anyone..she talked over and down and at this poor guy.. everything always had to be “her way” and the poor guy just “numbed himself” to get through the day! She doesn’t get that she was a big part of the problem! He couldn’t talk to her, he couldn’t make himself heard over her self obsorption and “sheana world attitude! She didn’t have a clue what being a partner meant or that being “hot isn’t enough” when you need to talk to someone at the end of the day! She’s 30 years old .. still fantasy playing the popular girl in high school! Immature and insecure and incredibly narcissist! I thought Stasi Schroeder was bad..wow! Always chasing a dream.. I wouldn’t want to be around when fantasy collides with reality someday!! Hot mess looking for a place to happen!