Ramona Singer has been highly involved in LuAnn de Lesseps’ love life ever since she got engaged to Tom D’Agostino and now, Singer is reacting to the news that Tom cheated on LuAnn.
“Knowing Tom, Bethenny’s information did not surprise at all,” Ramona Singer shared during a live Facebook chat before the season finale last Wednesday. “I mean, listen, he likes to date a lot. I mean, I only went out with him five or six times, but I found out after the fact, all these girls were telling me how they were dating him and how he was putting hearts on their legs and how he was making them feel like they were the ones. So this is a man who just likes to womanize.”
Ramona even went as far to say that if she was LuAnn, she would have felt like Tom was “a piece of sh**.” Given the fact that Ramona’s husband Mario cheated on her, she elaborated that she wanted to console LuAnn in Miami. “I go, ‘You know what, Luann? You are special. He’s a sh**head. You are special in every way. It’s not about you, it’s about him. He doesn’t feel good about himself. Men who cheat, men who treat women badly, it’s not about you women out there; it’s about men,'” she told Luann after the news came out. That’s what I realize about my ex. He did things, he acted out, it had nothing to do with me. He doesn’t feel good about himself. Tom needs reaffirmation from women to feel good about himself, which is kind of sad, but it is what it is.”
“Bethenny handled it the best she could when she told Luann about Tom. I mean, she was really freaking out. That’s why she didn’t come to Palm Beach to meet us on the boat because she knew this information, and she just didn’t know what to do, and she waited until the last day because she didn’t want to spoil everyone’s time. And she wasn’t even sure she was going to tell her,” she said. “And you know what, how do you tell someone? How do you tell them?”
But Ramona says if LuAnn and Tom’s relationship wasn’t so new, she wouldn’t have relayed the information at all. “I don’t know about all of you, but I had that happen to me too where I had women whose husbands had been fooling around on the side, and you make a choice: Do you tell them or don’t tell them? But you know what, my girlfriends are married for plus-20 years, and guess what, I’m not going there,” she explained. “And that’s what Bethenny said. She said, ‘You know what, if Luann was with this gentleman for 20 years and had kids with him that were young, she’d keep her mouth shut.’ But because Luann is just newly engaged, she felt, and I think she was right, that, you know what, we should just give her the information. So we gave her the information.”
Ramona also confirmed that she has NOT received a save the date for LuAnn’s wedding. “Luann did [send] save the dates. At the reunion, she did say she has yet to decide if she’s gonna invite any of us or all of us. She would wait until after the reunion,” she said. “I do know a few months ago, I’m with a really good girlfriend, and my good girlfriend says, ‘You know what? Luann invited me to her wedding. She told me she wanted me to go to her wedding.’ I’m like, ‘Gosh, she invites my good girlfriend three months ago, but not me?’ So listen, maybe I’m invited, maybe I’m not. Whatever happens, happens.”
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