Melissa Gorga’s Message To Her Former Friend Jan DeDolce


Melissa Gorga is taking to her Bravo Blog to talk about her former friend Jan DeDolce’s claims she cheated on her husband Joe Gorga. For the first time, Melissa talks about what happened between her and Jan and says that she wishes Teresa would have presented a united front with her against Penny and Jan.

Melissa writes, “Thank you all so much! I’m overwhelmed. It’s such a huge honor to be here. First of all, I’d like to thank the Academy for giving me this incredible award. Thanks to my co-stars. You make me look good! Special thanks to all of the back-stabbers, trouble makers, gossipers, and sh– stirrers out there! You’ve made me what I am today! Truly!

LOL! I would love to be as great an actress as my former friend claims. Actually as far as you’re concerned Martin Scorsese, I am!

Well, that was a bizarre and confusing night. I’m sure you are just as dizzy as I am. Teresa and I had already talked about the rumors and she told me to just “ignore it.” So I was surprised when she called and suggested that her launch party would be the “perfect time” to confront the people that have been spreading these lies about me. It was a long time since we’ve been together as a family and supporting one another. I knew it was going to be a big night for her and I didn’t understand why she even allowed them to come in the first place.

As you can see I don’t like to be confrontational. I’ve learned to step around the pit when the snakes are hungry. But I couldn’t avoid a confrontation this time. The magazine cover. The rumors. I had to deal with it head on to make it stop.

Like Teresa said, we need to do what Dr. V. suggested and be a united front and back each other up.  In that regard, it was a missed opportunity. I would have loved it if Teresa said something to back me up. Then again, she didn’t have to. No one had to. I could have just stood there silently, nodding along as Jan and Penny revealed themselves to be exactly what they are. Their stories had more holes than a punchboard. Why would “people” ask questions about me to someone I’d never met? It just doesn’t add up.

Didn’t you love Joe’s expression during that whole conversation? It was priceless. He was on the verge of laughing in their faces. The whole thing was a joke! When we were watching the episode, it was like Comedy Night at the Improv.  Joe is my united front. He always backs me up!

Jan and I, along with a lot of other people, hung out when we were young. We partied and went to clubs. I got married at 25 and had my baby girl at 26. My partying days were behind me and a lot of my old friendships faded. It happens.

Accusing me of having “skeletons under my bed” is just ridiculous. Like what? When I was a teenager, I went to clubs? I kissed a boy before Joe? Stop the freakin’ presses.

It’s all true. Once upon a time, I was young and had fun. You got me! Now I’m older and I have another kind of fun with my husband and three children. Yes, I’ve changed! As bad as I am at counting, I know there’s a difference between 21 and 34.

The bottom line: Jan and I were friends for five minutes, a million years ago. We grew apart. She chose to lie about me for 15 minutes. Whatever. I wish her well and God bless.”

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6 Replies to “Melissa Gorga’s Message To Her Former Friend Jan DeDolce”

  1. I’m sure Kim D is behind all this. She is such a wanna be fame whore!!! IMHO she is in the same category as Kim G.

  2. The Three Witches were absurd! Teresa and her two buddies were rehearsed as well as any three mental midgets can be, no doubt about it. When asked by someone if you are their “friend” is the normal answer a long, drawn out specified disclaimer usually reserved for a courtroom, or is a simple ‘yes’ or ‘no’? It was so obviously said to give Teresa a pass, this woman who she supposedly doesn’t have a friendship or a deal with. Teresa saw this as an opportunity to get her business party aired and have these women cover her butt. She thinks she looked good because she’s too stupid to realize how she digs herself in further every time she opens her mouth. And every time the Gorgas trust this women they get burned.

  3. Omigosh, like they said Teresa was trying too hard to make Penny say that they weren’t friends and she didn’t talk to her, yeah right, she definitely looked more guilty! I think Teresa certainly is behind some of this bs. And I kept waiting for Melissa to ask Penny…if we don’t know each other, why would anyone be asking you questions about me and how would you know what to answer? Baaahaaahaaa…because Teresa told her what to say probably! As for Jan, Melissa is right…just trying to get her 15 minutes of a fame! Melissa, sorry, the academy award should go to Teresa and Jan, they definitely had to put on an act to carry that off!

    1. Besides, there’s a big old picture of Teresa and this Tarnished Penny together from a while ago, just the two of them. They knew each other more than from a distance. Even if they don’t call each other every day, there’s been some conversation between them.

  4. BOYCOT BRAVO if Teresa isn’t fired!!! If you are as tried as I am of Teresa’s lying and now the fact she has been arrested on 39 counts for being a thief and liar. The Feds can’t be wrong that many times.

  5. Melissa was the first to break the united front when she ran to Jacs house. OMG I am getting so sick of this show.

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