Lydia Reveals Briana Or Ryan Have NOT Apologized, Says She Didn’t Like How Briana Acted At RHOC Reunion


Lydia McLaughlin is taking to her Bravo Blog to talk about part 3 of the RHOC reunion. Lydia reveals that Briana or Ryan have NOT reached out to her or her mother since what happened at Vicki’s Winter Wonderland party. Lydia says she didn’t like how Briana acted at the reunion and she explains why she got up and walked away.

Lydia writes, “Briana came onto the set with such an intense vibe, which you instantly see on her face. She has been through a lot — a new baby, getting married, having her husband deployed, seeing her parents divorce and on and on. Having to deal with all of that on display on a reality show must be hard. I really don’t know Briana, but for the record let me say that I have no ill feelings towards her and I really do wish her and Ryan the best.

What happened between my mother and Ryan was unfortunate. However, I feel Vicki, Ryan, and Briana are trying to steer away from the facts. Ryan shouldn’t have yelled at my mother. End of story. He should apologize for his actions. She wasn’t drinking red wine, but if she had been, don’t you think he would have mentioned that while he was verbally assaulting her!?

I was upset with how Briana acted at the reunion. She said she didn’t want to talk about “it,” but then went on to insinuate that my mother was somehow responsible for “mud and red wine” on the couch. Why wasn’t this mysterious glass of red wine ever mentioned before and where is this magical mud patch my mom supposedly walked through before resting on the couch? My mother doesn’t drink red wine and Vicki’s home has all cement in the back. Oh and let’s not forget that my Mom was wearing all WHITE! Brianna is clearly making excuses for Ryan. What’s upsetting to me is that there was no acknowledgement that he was out of line.

Neither Briana nor Ryan have reached out to me or my mother since this all happened. They haven’t apologized in the slightest, even after watching the scene when it aired on TV. “He was stressed out.” “He was drinking too much.” The reason is irrelevant. I just hope Ryan can watch it, accept responsibility and grow from this because there is absolutely no excuse for his behavior. I was and am very proud of how my mom handled herself that night at Vicki’s. She was VERY shaken, but kept her cool while some arrogant man dropped f-bombs at her.

Once the reunion conversation turned to Brooks, Briana, and Vicki, I had had enough. We had been filming all day. Eight hours of constant drama and negativity! I’m just not used to being around that energy. It’s one thing for one of the Housewives to call out another for something petty, but the drama went to a whole different level when Vicki’s daughter starting talking about Brooks, a man her mother cares about. In no way am I defending Brooks’ actions or taking sides, but Briana made some serious accusations about Brooks on a world stage and my heart broke for my friend Vicki. She looked broken and so sad and while it was all happening, I was sitting there wondering, “How did I get myself into such a bad situation?” and I decided I didn’t have to be. So. . .I got up and left. I had a good cry, said a prayer and took a few deep breaths. When I felt composed I was able to rejoin the group.”

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