Lydia McLaughlin Annoyed Shannon Beador Meddled in Fight with Tamra Judge

Lydia McLaughlin admit she overreacted about being excluded from the group text on this week’s episode of RHOC. In her blog, Lydia admits that her feelings were hurt and says she was annoyed by Shannon Beador meddling in her fight with Tamra Judge.

“I was really excited for the girls and myself to be out of our comfort zones and go on adventures together. This world is so full of beauty, and I’m grateful that it’s part of my job to explore and get to experience it.

The first night we arrived, Fridrik, our host, had planned an Icelandic dinner and drinks for us. Shannon and Tamra never texted me to say they weren’t coming. I totally understand that we had been traveling all day and night and if they wanted to stay in, no big deal. However, no one told me that.

When we went to my room for a night cap, and I heard about the group text, my feelings were definitely hurt. I’m an inclusive person, and apparently, I’m really sensitive about being left out. I simply found it odd that someone wouldn’t text the host but would text everyone else. In my mind, I’m thinking, “Why would Tamra leave me out? Did they all want to talk behind my back?” It wasn’t a good feeling, and I had planned to bring it up to Tamra the next day.

The next day at lunch, I went to the table, and Shannon was sitting there, whispering to Tamra about it. This was annoying because I didn’t want to make it into a big ordeal. When Tamra is defensive and not hearing my heart, I am extremely frustrated. I feel like I didn’t want it to be a big deal, and somehow the situation spun out and became a scene. I was also frustrated that she was dismissing my feelings. I guess I was just looking for a simple apology. I never should have thrown the menu, and I regret losing my temper.

I am so grateful that Vicki talked to me and gave me advice. I’m also thankful I was able to pull Tamra aside and talk it out because that is what friends do. At the end of the day, I think it was an oversight, and I don’t think Tamra did it on purpose. I really treasure my friendship with Tamra and would never want something as silly as a group text to jeopardize that. Watching it all back, I understand Tamra’s reaction more.”

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  • Shirley Wilbourn

    How can she be annoyed? Meddler should be her middle name. Shannon seemed to want to let Tamra know that she hurt Lydia’s feelings, and she sees this as meddling… proves her “hatred” towards Shannon.

    • Pierre

      Lydia is delusional beyond belief. She has no awareness of her behaviour but constantly criticises others’. I hope watching herself this season will make her take a long, hard look at herself and, if not, hopefully the reunion will deliver a reality bomb-shell or two (hundred)!!! I have never disliked a housewife more. I know nobody is perfect but housewives normally have at least some redeeming features. Apparently Lydia does not and anyone who doesn’t pull her up on it is enabling her imo.

      • Heather

        yeah and has the nerve to think she is the Friendship Whisperer.

      • Heather

        It just seems that Lydia is a spoiled brat. Her mother and dad spoil her, her husband spoils her. She is apparently lacking in character as spoiled brats tend to be.

    • Heather

      She does hate Shannon. She better get her own heart right.

  • UnrealHousewife57

    Sad that the only reason Lydia is back is because her husband inherited and they’re now “Paris Hilton rich”.

  • Heather

    The next day at lunch, I went to the table, and Shannon was sitting there, whispering to Tamra
    about it. This was annoying because I didn’t want to make it into a big
    ordeal. When Tamra is defensive and not hearing my heart, I am extremely
    frustrated. I feel like I didn’t want it to be a big deal, and somehow
    the situation spun out and became a scene. I was also frustrated that
    she was dismissing my feelings. I guess I was just looking for a simple
    apology. I never should have thrown the menu, and I regret losing my
    temper.

    DEAR GOD IS SHE JOKING? THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT SHE DOES TO SHANNON. AND HALF THE SHIT SHE WAS MAD AT SHANNON FOR WERENT TRUE LIKE SHANNON PLANNED THE PARTY AND DIDNT INCLUDE HER. NOT TRUE. LIKE SHANNON MOCKED HER BOOB JOB. NOT TRUE. AND WHO MEDDLES FOR THAN LYDIA? THIS WOMAN IS NUTS. & MEAN.

    • Shirley Wilbourn

      How did Lydia feel when she was told it wasn’t Shannon that left out of the party. And, Tamra needs to apologize to Shannon for putting her in that situation knowing how Lydia feels about her. Granted Shannon is a whiner but seems to me she must the season’s scapegoat…

      • Heather

        Lydia attacks Shannon all the time and is wrong on the premise. Like also when she accused Shannon of mocking her boob job. It wasnt true and she never apologizes. I cant stand Lydia anymore. Shannon is acting emotional cause she is going through HELL. I feel very compassionate for her.

  • Heather

    YOU want an apology? For what? You are a spoiled brat. Go apologize to Shannon who you’ve tortured since day one.

    • Shirley Wilbourn

      Since day one. EXACTLY!

  • bluebell

    Lydia did overreact & apologized. I’m glad Lydia is back. I like her more this season.

  • Michelle

    Lydia’s not being entirely honest here. She was very upset, rightly or wrongly. And I really don’t think Shannon was “meddling”. I believe she was letting Tamra know since she knew Lydia was upset about it. If Shannon had not said anything I don’t think Lydia would have said anything to Tamra and it would have continued building and possibly blown up later. Lydia just doesn’t like Shannon and it’s been evident since the first episode. Again Lydia is not being honest about that.

  • missroxmiss

    I am not a Shannon fan but it is obvious that LyinVileIcky is lydiots and Pegs leader they have all attacked Shannon which is very unchristian, ungodly .We know them by their fruit .Lydiot has been after Shannon , let’s all be friends. Shannon needs to run from the psychos ..

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