LuAnn de Lesseps Says Heather And Carole Violated Her Privacy In Turks And Caicos


LuAnn de Lesseps is taking to her blog to discuss the drama filled trip with her cast mates to Turks and Caicos. The Countess explains why she felt like Heather Thomson and Carole Radziwill violated her privacy and shares her thoughts on the rest of the trip.

“I’m writing you from Ibiza, Spain, an island in the Mediterranean Sea, known for its electronic dance music and artist community. I’m vacationing with great friends and enjoying the fabulous nightlife. So I’m going to keep this brief.

We join you from the Turks and Caicos “f— you dinner” where Dorinda reached her dirty martini limit. Heather being her usual bossy self, shooed Dorinda from the table so they could resolve their issues alone. Ramona followed the girls into the bathroom and basically forced a hug on Dorinda and that’s when Heather got all gangsta on her so she would leave. I think Heather intimidated Ramona into backing off, and I believe Ramona when she said she felt scared. They seemed to put it all behind them fairly quickly and when Heather and Carole decided to skip going to the club after dinner, I wasn’t disappointed to see them go. I went out with Ramona and Sonja to a karaoke bar, and we had the best time! We invited some lovely English gentlemen back to the house for drinks, and we were having so much fun we didn’t want the night to end…if you know what I mean!

The next morning, the sh– hit the fan in our villa when Heather stumbled naked into the bathroom and discovered one of our friends from the night before sleeping au naturel! I had no idea that Ramona let her friend sleep upstairs. Thank God I sent mine home. That’s a first! The man wasn’t in Heather’s bedroom; he was in another room separated by a bathroom! Poor Dorinda didn’t make it down the stairs before being accosted by Heather and her sidekick Carole, whose reaction was over the top. Dorinda hadn’t had a chance to put her contacts in, never mind process what happened the night before. Then the hysterical duo decided to confront Ramona, and she, as usual, punted the problem off to me!

Heather and Carole then barged into my room, yelling about our overnight houseguest. They may have knocked, but I can assure you, they didn’t wait for an answer before running into my room. I could have been swinging from a chandelier with a guy on my back for all they knew! Instead, they found just me, tired from a really fun night, but it could have ended up differently. I was angry that they didn’t respect my privacy. I’m single, and I can do what I like with whom I like, and it’s none of their business. Once I arose and came out to the kitchen for a much-needed caffeine jolt, Heather launched into me again and that was when I’d had enough of her histrionics and told her, “Don’t be all uncool.” We were on vacation, and I’m not married or in a serious relationship. As for the man I was flirting with being married, I can assure you his marriage vows are still intact!

After we returned from our trip, which Ramona rated a 10 out of 10 (and I agree), I headed out to the Hamptons to chill out and relax. These trips are a lot of fun, but I needed a vacation from my vacation when we got back. After recharging, I headed back into the city to attend Kristen’s Denim and Diamonds jean decorating party. As you can see, although I was enjoying decorating my jeans, I was still angry with the girls for barging into my room on our vacation. I couldn’t believe it when I confronted Heather and told her that Carole apologized to me that Carole, when asked, denied doing so. I assure you, Carole apologized for invading my privacy. My problem is that neither Heather nor Carole feel like they did anything wrong. Heather and Carole broke the Girl Code that morning in Turks and Caicos and after I said my piece, I was done. I decided to leave the girls to their jeans and their drama.”

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  • T

    Not defending Carole and Heather but shouldn’t LuAnn also be mad at Ramona? Ramona is the one who sent them to her. I understand that LuAnn felt that her privacy was invaded but this could have been avoided if Ramona had put on her big girl pants and admitted the truth from the get go

    • Zed

      Ramona will never admit to anything!!! The damage was done before they found out. In my opinion they did overreact! They had a film crew and staff from the house. The houseboy must have been there because he told Kristen that Luann’s man was married!

  • Jody

    What were they doing in LuAnns room?

  • CassyJ

    Sorry I’m not liking Lu at all. She seems to be looking for a reason to make drama so she doesn’t get demoted again. She also doesn’t understand it’s not about sleeping with a married man it is about her attitude “sh&@ happens” when she found out. That lets you know she doesn’t care if someone is married. I feel she is trashing it up for TV. I also very seriously doubt Carol and Heather wanted to catch her in any sexual position.

  • Obviously, it was Ramona’s unintended fault. SHE is new to this game, but Lu is not as evidenced by her “Thank God I sent mine home. That’s a first! ” remark. Tacky and very uncool, Lu. Heather and Carole had every right to be upset. The connecting bathroom door was not closed or locked and, therefore, violated THEIR privacy and safety. I don’t blame them for freaking out.

    • Karen’

      I totally agree with your position, Chloes Mom. LuAnn’s indignant position is irritating and grating to me.

    • Good point that Luann freaked out about her privacy being invaded and didn’t worry about Heather’s privacy while she was sleeping naked with a stranger in the next room unattended. It seems like Luann is only concerned about what is put on camera more than anything else.

  • Aunt Bee

    Classless countess.

  • DebBrenn

    Hey, Lu! It’s not a “friend” if you just dragged him home from a bar and don’t even know his name. And you think his wife would be happy with you flirting and making out with her husband? You looked like a fool turning it into a big deal on the part of Heather and Carol days later at the jeans get together.

    • T

      Yes! Exactly

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  • Carioca

    Can’t stand Heather and Carol. Lu keep doing your thing, I am entertained!

    • Jody

      Carioca I am 100% in your corner. Thanks. Jody

  • starr

    You’re wrong & strong Luann. Shame on you. Look in the mirror & try & conduct yourself like a lady, not a tramp & definitely no countess here.