Lizzie Rovsek: Tamra Doesn’t Fight Fair


Lizzie Rovsek is taking to her last Bravo Blog of the season to talk about why she was emotional during the reunion. Lizzie says that Tamra Judge does not fight fair and believes Judge made the comments about her children and husband to deflect her own problems.

Lizzie writes, “To be honest, the second half of the Reunion was hard to watch. I think it got too ugly. I am not going to insult any of your intelligence in explaining this episode. We all know that misery loves company, and “projection” is as easy to spot as a $2 dollar bill. It doesn’t take a rocket scientist to see that everything miserable that comes out of Tamra’s mouth is a direct reflection of what is going on in her life. In my opinion, children are off limits. It’s quite apparent that Tamra does not fight fair and when all else fails she will throw your kids, marriage, and even your body under the bus in an attempt to hurt you. We filmed the reunion for over 10 hours and after listening to so much ugliness my heart just couldn’t take it anymore.

I do not regret telling Shannon all the things that Tamra said about her. Everything I shared with Shannon was something that happened and was said on camera. I didn’t take anything and create unnecessary drama. I would do it again in a heartbeat and I would think my friends would do the same for me. I simply did not know the truth about Tamra. Danielle told me all the things Tamra said about me. That is why after my birthday I was so hurt by her. It’s hard for viewers to understand because these things weren’t in the show. She could have called me and said she wasn’t coming. I called her after sitting on the bus for over an hour. The next day she made fun of me to Danielle, in addition to asking plenty of questions looking for negative details regarding my party.

On that one-year free membership to Cut Fitness: Let’s delve into this shall we? I was the one that contacted Tamra days after my party. She did not contact me to give me present. I had invited Tamra, Eddie, Danielle, Joe, Heather, and Terry to the Kentucky Derby and Tamra was the only person that had not sent in the RSVP. It was past the deadline and it was getting borderline rude at this point. Tamra, in fact, was making fun of the Kentucky Derby and the charity event that would be hosting us to Danielle. So, I reached out to Tamra regarding the Kentucky Derby and she texted me back saying, “I want to give you a free membership to CUT for your birthday.” Tamra knows I am already a member to a sports club and that was the last I heard of this “free membership.” I never received any kind of certificate or card for membership. I suppose she thought I would have the gall to show up and say, “I got a text message from Tamra for a free membership!” It’s almost laughable. Needless to say, I don’t go to her gym and she didn’t attend the Kentucky Derby with me.

There is nothing else to say regarding the Shag, Marry, Kill game that I haven’t already discussed in great length in any of my previous blogs. I said the word “marry” and that’s that. Tamra even glared at me on the way out of the Valentine’s Party and repeated it. “Marry you?” Tamra has said multiple times she couldn’t even remember because she drank too much and there are even text messages where she says it too. Her story changes continually, like the words that come out both sides of her mouth.

During the Reunion, Tamra said many more hurtful things that you didn’t see. She went on to talk about my son Preston and my marriage. We all remember the episode in the park where Preston hit me on the head with his elephant. He was asleep in the car and he had a mini temper tantrum. He was three — it happens. I would assume most mothers have had it happen at some point. In addition, my husband and I got in a fight on my birthday. I feel awful about it, yet it made us closer. I just wanted what every woman wants — to feel special because of her man. I am a big time believer in learning from your mistakes and that won’t ever happen again. However none of those incidents had anything to do with Tamra. But on her quest to hurt everyone, she managed to drag in some irrelevant topics. I know it’s all to deflect from what’s going on in her life and to make someone else look bad. . .but it does hurt nonetheless. My babies and my marriage are my life so I guess her goal was to attack the things closest to my heart because she can’t fight fair.”

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16 Replies to “Lizzie Rovsek: Tamra Doesn’t Fight Fair”

  1. Tamra is the lowest of low but be very wary of the suddenly caring Heather. Remember she is Tamra’s closest friend on the show and I would not trust her one iota.

  2. Lizzie- your love to sit there and act all sweet and innocent but you throw out your shade too you live to call Ramtpra an old lady and remind her she’s to ok’d to have kids ans then pretend like those were just sweet innocent comments. Yeah right. Then you take comments someone makes (when Tsmra said Brooks was shady when you asked about him) and you turn it into ” Tamra’s basing Brooks” – you evened admitted on the reunion that all was all Tamra said to you about Brooks, but that wasn’t what you said in Bali. You also take flippinat remarks that Tanra said at you’re party when Shannn actually did flip out very publically and twist them in a way to make it seem like Tamra was talking behind her back. You are a shit stirrer. You just are better at hiding it. Plus prrople seemed to give you a pass for some of the pretty crappy remarks you said about your husband. I don’t think you are all that sweet. It’s just that Tamra is less controlled than you. That’s the only difference.

    1. Karen, Lizzie has a point that she only said what was already on camera, and everybody she told something too would eventually see it, anyway. Plus, she never said that the ‘Brooks is shady’ comment was the only one. She said it was the only one she discussed. Nobody holds a candle to Tamra in the nasty department.

    2. Thank you Karen… I agree with you 100%. Lizzie is not the innocent person she makes herself out to be. She twisted words.. lizzie was a complete bore to watch this season.. She is a mean girl and my opinion completely fake.

  3. I think you are a beautiful women. I think that Tamara is a bully. I think you are a strong women, and a wonderful wife, and mother. I hope to see you next season. ❤️

  4. i like lizzie but tamera calling herself trailer trash as she has in the past is insulting traler trash! im sad she is not leaving the show. and i am counting the days to the demise of her marriage to eddie we all know it is coming ….

  5. trampa is a mean, vile, vulgar woman—she is aging badly and is bitter. Everytime the heat is on her or the truth about her lying/gossiping comes out—she acts like a 12 year old and starts throwing out the F-bomb and other cuss words which shows her lack of intellect and maturity…… And heather (joker face) standing by this sinking ship just shows that she too is a mean girl or a complete idiot………..
    And vicki letting the viewer’s question trampas marriage is just confirmation of what we already knew ( and it really ticked off trampa)….
    trampa is learning that karma is not you’re friend. The little twit finally got some of the garbage she has been throwing at others since she first came on the show………… I wish bravo would ax her (she has no story line, (other than a fake baby), and really is boring…

  6. I like lizzie. Hope to see Lizzie back. Lizzie I just wish you had told Shannon sooner what was being said. Lizzie is a good person. Pretty inside and out unlike Tamra. Lizzie watch out for Heather. I would stick with Shannon. I know Vicki will be back up Tamras butt. I hope not the way Tamra treats her too. Lizzie I think your a good person. Rem everyone is not like Tamra and Heather. Just watch Heather and Tamra. Wish they had gave Lizzie more time on reunion. But until the end, Lizzie wanted to be Tamras friend so bad. I still think she does. Did Danielle really have her husband to call Tamra to apologize? Lol. Lizzie would know.Lizzie begged these ppl to come to that bday party. I guess no one wanted to go. It wasn’t her husbands fault. I think Lizzie and Danielle went along with what Tamra was saying for a long time before telling Shannon. Lizzie though I thought was a smarter lady than that. Why does everyone need Tamra for a friend. Including Vicki?

  7. Did anyone else happen to notice that when Lizzie got upset and starting crying and Heather went over to comfort her—–all the sudden the focus was taken off trampa and she seemed to develop one tear of her own (for attention) and camera time. She really is a low class insecure, bitter twit…….

  8. I am not buying what you are selling Lizzie, I have seen quite a few moments of you that I am not a fan of…I agree with Karen..I would want to see another season of Lizzie before I could make up my mind about her, that doesn’t mean that I agree with Tamra..I think lizzie is all about Lizzie and that’s ok just own it..I can’t cope with people that play victim when they can not win a fight it is just a form of manipulation and I think Lizzie does that a lot!!

  9. I have watched Tamra act this nasty and offensive towards many of her castmates, both present and past! Lizzie caught on quicker than most by labeling Tamra for what she is…an insecure woman! She gets along well with Vicki because she does not view her as a real threat! Anyone that is thinner, younger, smarter, more successful, richer, and most of all, anyone viewed as being really hot or really attractive by the viewers becomes the target of Tamra’s vicious, cruel attacks. I am not saying that Vicki does not possess most of these attributes, actually she is one castmate that should have been viewed as a threat to Tamra on many levels. However, Vicki owns her position on the show and Tamra recognized early that no one messes with Vicki and that the only alternative she really had was to consistently remain her ally. Tamra has had issues with all the young and pretty ones; such as Gretchen, Alexis, Lizzie and even “Fancy Pants” Heather earlier this season and most of last season. I feel that any viewer or cast member that was unsure of just how cruel and hurtful Tamra could be, were left convinced of just how extremely vicious and hateful she could become this season and especially following her vengeful behavior during the reunion episodes!!

    1. Tamra thinks the most important thing is to be sexy and gorgeous. She thinks that’s the currency to becoming rich and famous and have everyone admire you. So she can look at Vicki and Heather and admire what they have but not be threatened by them, since both of them are middle aged and you wouldn’t call either of them hot or sexually appealing. If you look at who she generally attacks they are the ones that are the young beautiful ones, and the ones that she sees as having become wealthy from their beauty.

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