Lizzie Rovsek Forgives Tamra, Thinks Marry, Shag, Kill Was A Setup


Lizzie Rovsek is taking to her Bravo Blog to discuss the season finale of RHOC. Lizzie says she forgives Tamra Judge, but believes the game of marry, shag, kill was a setup.

Lizzie writes, “We have finally made it to the finale episode. I think the Bali trip was hard on everyone. I was so happy to finally be back home with my family and people that I know love and support me. I thought it was very nice that Vicki wanted to have a party to celebrate our trip and to share the good times with our men.

After the final dinner in Bali, I really made a decision to dismiss Tamra from my life. I have never in my life heard a woman say such horrible things to other women before. It’s interesting to hear Heather say to Christian at the dinner table on tonight’s episode, how “everyone was yelling at Tamra” in Bali. Were we at the same table? I didn’t hear anyone yell at Tamra at the last dinner in Bali. In fact I think the only woman yelling was Tamra. We were all genuinely hurt and defending ourselves. It didn’t have to end the way it did.

My goal for the dinner party at Vicki’s was to try and have a good time and stay away from Tamra. I honestly had nothing left to say to her. She does not tell the truth and she does not handle conflict well. I really didn’t feel like getting my personal life bashed by someone that knows nothing about me. My husband rarely, if ever, gets involved in any of this drama. But I have to say he was really upset that Terry wasn’t truthful about the “marry, shag, kill” game.

My husband, Joe and Danielle seem to be the only ones that are being honest about what happened and what was said the night of the Valentine’s party. I am sad that Heather and Terry are being dishonest about their recollection of the game. I have always looked up to both of them. Maybe selective memory kept them from hearing what Eddie was yelling at the hoedown in regards to Heather riding the bull too? Who knows?

Of course, Tamra brings up the “Marry, Shag, Kill” game yet again! There is nothing else to say, but “I’m sorry” for whatever she thinks I said or didn’t say. It’s a crazy he said/she said and no one can possibly win — and who wants to? The fact that NOW, she brings up another thing about the game, is like, what? And of course, she repeats this wrong too. I chose to “marry” Eddie (not shag) in the game so we could have Mexican/Italian babies. Christian and I talk about having another baby all the time so my brain is on that track. It wasn’t meant to be anything but playful. We all gave reasons. . .Tamra chose to marry Dr. Dubrow because he was “loaded” (rich), shag Christian because he’s hot and because she likes his messy hair, and to kill Brooks (who wasn’t even there) because she dislikes him so much. I am starting to feel like that ridiculous game was a set-up. The game wasn’t my idea and why is EVERYTHING I said during the game is now being looked at under a microscope? It’s starting to seem suspicious to me. Was the game a ploy to cause drama?

Furthermore, I would have never thought that I was trying to hurt Tamra and her situation. I look at Tamra and see someone with a cup half full. She has four kids and now having grandkids. I see her in a different stage in her life. Looking on the bright side here, maybe everyone will know I like Mexicans! I think they are beautiful.

I can’t walk around on eggshells for another person. I don’t have the power to change anyone, nor do I want to. I get to be me. Tamra gets to be Tamra. However, I get to make decisions on how I let people affect me — and I get to decide who or what I want in my life. I forgive Tamra. I forgive myself. I choose to be around people that love and support one another. Conflict is OK. It’s even OK to lose your temper here and there. But when the behavior becomes habitual without remorse, you have to make a conscious decision about what you allow in your life.

After the final dinner I reached out to Tamra regarding her custody battle. As a mother I felt the need to support her. We are all in this life together. We made a bit of amends and both shared what we were hurt over in Bali. We even talked about getting together with our hubbies. But that didn’t last for long, as you’ll see at the Reunion.

I am sorry for what Tamra is going through in her life; I just don’t think it’s a good excuse to hurt other people. We all go through hard times. I am a very forgiving person. I forgive two or three or more times than necessary. However there comes a time when you damage a relationship beyond repair and the things that have happened in the past few weeks are reprehensible. Will I forgive Tamra? Yes and I have. However, I don’t foresee a friendship with her.”

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13 Replies to “Lizzie Rovsek Forgives Tamra, Thinks Marry, Shag, Kill Was A Setup”

  1. I think Lizzie has done the best she could trying to forgive a toxic woman (Tamra). Tamra believes everything is the fault of someone else. She’s spiteful, vindictive, trashy, and miserable. She drives everybody away eventually.

  2. I think Lizzie is full of shit!! I am not a Tamra fan but that doesn’t mean she can hang it all on Tamra I think she is just as big a liar as Tamra what’s the old saying people in glass houses!! I think Lizzie is a very self absorbed person…I believe she said F…ked Eddie, I believe she would lie to make herself look better.

    1. I agree! I think there was one time when we saw that Lizzie was a mean drunk but I can’t remember what it was. So I can definitely see her saying (in a nasty way) that Eddie wanted to f___ her just to be mean. I don’t buy her “sweet” persona.

    2. I was beginning to think I was the only one! I can totally see Lizzie saying this, especially after the fight she had with her own husband on her birthday. She definitely has that mean streak in her. Tamra is a liar and Lizzie is no princess, even if she pretends to be.

    3. Don’t tell me there isn’t any footage of the marry, shag, kill game? Wouldn’t it be awesome if at the reunion Bravo airs what Lizzie really says, airs (again) what Tamara’s husband said about Heather on the bull, shows the footage again of Heather turning up the speed of the bull, Tamara telling new girls how Brooks is not a good person, and Lizzie being vile about her husband’s limp stick.

  3. I’m soooo tired if the Marry, Shag, Kill plot line! If it’s not been filmed, it’s boring for the wives to keep talking about it. It’s hard to know who to believe, if it was not filmed. Maybe Tamra should not have played the game if she was sooooo uncomfortable!

  4. I dismissed all the interaction with Tamra because she is just a nasty person. However, I typically like Heather and Terry, but their behavior at this party was appalling with all the references to Lizzy’s husband as just a construction guy, as though that is anything to be ashamed of, and then all but calling him stupid. You show your lack of class in how you treat others you perceive as not being in the same social status.

  5. Lizzie, I see right through you. Your games are pretty sloppy, if you think you’re going to be a success on this show you better learn how to play “chess” a little better.

  6. Lizzie is the lesser of two evils, I think she is bored with her life and her husband’s a limp penis so why not stir the pot.

  7. I think your all wrong, Heather and Terry are just some rich ass snobs that look down on people, and yes Tamara is just straight out a BITCH that like’s to cause trouble and not take responsibility and I feel she need’s to leave the show because her antic’a have gotten old just like HER. And Vicky is the only one on there that say’s it like it is and I feel that cutting Tamara out of her life is the smartest move she could make in her life, and Shannon is OK but she is just too nice. Lizzie just get’s attacked by Tamara because she is jealous of her because she is the young one on the show and she just can’t stand it Tamara is just Bitter and Old and can’t stand it when the truth is told or when she get’s called out on all her LIES!

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