Lisa Vanderpump Explains Why Her Feelings & Friendship With Kyle Richards Have Changed!

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Lisa Vanderpump is taking to her Bravo Blog this week to recap the latest Real Housewives of Beverly Hills episode. Lisa addresses a big viewer question regarding her friendship and feelings towards Kyle Richards… what happened? Lisa explains why her friendship with Kyle has changed and writes she doesn’t think she holds a grudge with people. Lisa explains events that have occurred that have forever changed she and Kyle’s friendship. Read below!

Lisa writes, “As we start this episode with Kyle saying she was coming over to my house, relaying the story of Vegas to Mauricio, it appeared to me that her recollection was slightly different to mine. Anyway we decided to talk just us, without the intervention of the others.

First let me be very clear here — if I held a grudge I wouldn’t probably speak to many of these women ever again. But relationships evolve, dynamics change, and sometimes loyalties divide.

In regard to Kyle, I always believed that whatever has transpired between the two of us, our friendship was always worth saving. Many situations that have taken place — the first tea party, the reunion, witnessing the conversations between her and Taylor — have all manifested in a substantial change in my feelings towards her. I regard her differently. Now if that is interpreted by her as me holding a grudge, then I do not have the power to change that. I personally feel it is a passive aggressive swipe once more. And it’s also hard for me to understand how she recalls the many issues as “petty.” I would never minimize the feelings of somebody close to me. . .

Whenever any of these instances were brought up, it was always treated with a slightly dismissive attitude by herself and Mauricio, never truly validating the depth of hurt that ensued after some of these instances. So I voice my opinion, but sincerely wondered if any of it would resonate. I can’t deny how we can laugh and we still continue to have moments where caution is thrown to the wind and we resume the carefree relationship that once was. But when you really hold a friend close, you need that reassurance that if all goes awry then they will support you. I rarely need it, as I am a strong but sensitive woman with an emotionally uncomplicated life. But I value that quality and will always repay it.

Yolanda with her daughter Bella and the horses made me smile. I love to witness scenes like that and am happy that Brandi is developing a closer relationship with her, as it was wearisome being the only one who would ever support her. We are all in agreement that she was guilty of revealing something that was inappropriate, but she had apologized. . .That should have sufficed.

It was decided that another tea party is in order. Camille I felt, was regretful of her sudden outburst, which I have to say I could never quite understand. So let us try once more.

Adrienne had been absent from our group, which when we embarked on this journey so many moons ago, was not what we signed up for. We should endeavor to communicate without the need to become litigious, to resolve our differences, to articulate how we feel without financial bullying, which ultimately is redundant when we hope to all have a future together.

Taylor provokes the situation, not that I blame her. She must still harbor feelings of resentment when the identical legal situation presented itself previously. I admired her candor, even though it was cloaked in alcohol — never an ideal choice at tea but there you have it.

The tension mounts. Brandi is indignant and becomes aware that the only way to substantiate her claim that she had received a legal letter was probably to expose it.

So tempers flare and no resolution this week. Keep watching as this fascinating tale is not quite complete. . .”

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  • kossak

    lisa honey, if an apology should “suffice” then why didn’t adrienne’s apology “suffice” for you? used to like lisa, but she’s changed since she’s been spending time w/ the skanky martyr: brandi.

  • Adreienne set out to destroy Lisa on camera all because of a comment about her shoe. Really! Adrieene never had the relationship with Lisa that Kyle did. Adrieen has proven to be not only short in stature but short on character. Why didn’t she sue Lisa. Because Lisa isn’t intimidated and can financialy fight back, unlike Brandi. You call Brandi skanky. No way . Not by a long shot!!!!!

  • Ouiser Boudreaux

    Lisa and Ken were right….Adrienne should have taken Lisa’s play on words with Maloof Hoof and capitalized on it. She’d be a richer woman had she done so. That name would have made her shoe line. Instead, she was small-minded and instead of making the most of great idea, she blew it being petty. Adrienne will wind up being the topic of Bernie’s malicious gossip in the end. If he would black mail Paul, he is capable of the same behavior toward Adrienne once he parts from that money train!