Lisa Vanderpump Devastated Over Footage Of Kyle And Brandi, Doesn’t Understand Why Kyle Wouldn’t Defend Her


Lisa Vanderpump is taking to her Bravo Blog to discuss this week’s episode of The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills. Lisa explains why she wanted to try and mend things between Kyle and Carlton and says she believed Carlton was wrong. Lisa also shares that she has been devastated watching the footage of Brandi and Kyle’s conversation about her and doesn’t understand why Kyle wouldn’t defend her.

Lisa writes, “I arrived at Stockcross impressed by what was a wonderful party. There was much of it you didn’t see. . .I met Carlton’s family — a father-in-law that adored her, a mother in law to whom she is very close. That speaks volumes about a woman that I don’t think the audience has had a chance to see.

It seemed to me that a situation had escalated rather rapidly between Kyle and Carlton and I understood Carlton being upset at the negative label that was thrown at her, it was totally unwarranted. However, I had to defend Kyle at that moment as I felt Carlton had called it wrong. Carlton is is adamant she has Kyle’s number, that she has her reasons for her intense dislike of her. You yourselves will have to decide.

I don’t think Yolanda quite understood the situation. Yes, Kyle and I had words last reunion about our house being sold. . .but that is the purpose of that day — to hash things out, explore feelings and come to a resolution so that you can move forward.

Ken’s birthday, July 20th, fell on a Saturday. Kyle and I had spoken that week and I relayed that to her. She then mentioned that Mauricio’s birthday had passed without celebration so, as they have always liked each other, we decided to host a joint party. So of course the 20th was the day we wanted to celebrate, not postpone our celebration because David’s daughter (who we really don’t know) was getting married. We weren’t invited, nor should we have been, and had no idea of the timing of the event. However, I of course extended the invitation to Mohamed as he is one of my closest friends. I don’t understand the need for the negative comment. . .once more.

On a lighter note I absolutely loved the cover shoot it was a wonderful day. The photographs were beautiful. I had a brilliant team and photoshop to thank for that! But yes, it was a light reprieve from the mundanity of work, and it’s moments like this that are captured that remind me of why I signed up for this in the first place. Not all this constant negative B.S.

So when I witness Brandi talking to Kyle I find it so upsetting. I wish Kyle had questioned Brandi’s motive for that conversation or even uttered a word in my defense. It is pretty devastating to view this person that we have loved and trusted trying to malign me.

When I witness Brandi talking to Kyle I find it so upsetting. I wish Kyle had questioned Brandi’s motive for that conversation, or even uttered a word in my defense. It is pretty devastating to view this person that we have loved and trusted trying to malign me.

And on it goes. . .I give up I really do. It has been devastating and it gets increasingly hard to watch. I have tried to be a friend to all. I thank you for your support and comments until next week.”

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I’m sorry but why would Kyle defend her? They clearly aren’t good friends any more and it was only a few episodes back that Lisa was sitting around a table at Yolanda’s or her’s (? -I cant remember) bitching about Kyle and Mo with the same low blow that she brought out at the reunion – not forget what she tried to pull in front of Kyle’s daughter. Also, Kyle’s silence didn’t mean she was agreeing with or buying what Brandi was selling but just that she didn’t want to antagonise Brandi but instead just spoke her truth and her… Read more »

Lisa is not always friends with the other housewives. One time she’s Brandi’s friend, next Carlton, etc. She acts superior to everyone else on the show. I cannot understand why she thought Stassi was go great, she is one of the meanest people on the show. I am so glad she is gone and I hope Brandi will be gone also, so the other people get along better.

Have you not noticed Lisa SAVES people? She let that mooch live in her house forever, hoping he’d get on his feet and off her lounge chairs. She tried forever to teach Stassi to be nice, and gives her other servers chance after chance to quit screwing up. She did the same for Brandi. It’s certainly no perk for her, but it is a testament to her caring nature.

I think a lot of what I hear from viewers comments against Lisa is that she acts superior. I really think they misunderstand her British personality. Unless you keep this in mind you will never understand Lisa. She isn’t acting superior she just holds a lot of her feelings inside and her humor and reaction to situations can be quite different than we Americans. You’ve probably heard the British saying…”keep a stiff upper lip” ? in other words, Keep your emotions in check. They aren’t normally the type to let their hair down and cry at the drop of a… Read more »

I’ve never seen Lisa do anything that merits the viciousness of the other women. I only hope that the support of the viewers is enough to counteract the hurt of her castmates.

Lisa has to take responsibility for her recent behaviour. I like her, but can absolutely believe that it’s either her way or the highway. You can see it with Ken and with her businesses. He is just there as a sad grey appendage to say “yes, dear” for every one of her decisions. Her friends have to echo each and every sentiment – or else! Why did she find it so necessary to nag Brandi to go to the doctor, to tell her she doesn’t know what’s good for her, to do this, to do that – incessantly being over-the-top… Read more »
Veronte, I think Ken is enjoying semi-retirement, and is happy his wife takes over the majority of the responsibilities of the businesses. They have a very symbiotic relationship in which she is a dynamo and he’s content. What’s your problem with that? As for nagging her friend to see a doctor, she was right! Brandi’s hand was broken, and she needed to see a doctor before it healed deformed. As for the wedding invitation to Mohammed: C’mon! I’ll bet if you had Lisa’s schedule you’d be overwhelmed enough without having to commit to memory all your friends’ social calendars. You’re… Read more »
Maybe everyone’s shit scared of her; including Lisa! I wouldn’t want to go against her when obviously she’s gone off the deep end on this “star of david” remark. It’s really incredibly sad to watch her try to build a case against Kyle which is not there. The way she treated Kyle with the necklace was shocking. Her reactions are erratic and over the top and you never know when she’s going to go to the dark side. It makes me think Bravo may want to have their candidates for future Real HW shows get a psychiatric examination before they… Read more »

Lisa darling, u know the old saying, “A leopard can’t change it’s spots “. Case in point Kyle. She has done this sort of thing over and over and u continue to befriend her. This was the exact tiff you had with her last year, face it, she goes with whoever she is not to be trusted nor is she a friend. She really needs to get her dictionary out and look up the words. Friend, and loylalty.

Varonte, you said it! Lisa is my favorite HWBH. However, she does have an insensitive streak in her. Kyle loves Lisa, inspite of her ways. That’s what real friends do. She may not have taken up for you, but she didn’t say anything that wasn’t true.

if thats love from kyle i hate to see when shes really angry at her

I agree, Lisa keeps insisting on Kyle defending her, why?!? Lisa wasn’t defending Kyle and Mauricio when the rumors were rampant on Mauricio cheating! Lisa kept insistening that ” you can’t trust husbands bcuz we, women aren’t around them 24/7″, Ken came to Mauricio’s defense! Not Lisa! Lisa acted pretty Shi try towards Kyle early on this season, Kyle isn’t defending Lisa AT ALL ANYMORE. Lisa, like the other poster mentioned, you’re a grown a$$ woman, no one needs to defend you BUT YOURSELF. Kyle should keep clear away from Brandi bcuz Brandi will repeat same douche behavior to Kyle… Read more »

brandi is a snake in the grass. its all about ME ME ME poor little ME

I think that BOTH Kyle and Lisa are so overly sensitive to everything the other does, that it’s just getting ridiculous beyond belief! I’m getting tired of all these people complaining about how hurt they are by other cast members’ words, actions or Inactions! When it comes to Yolanda, Brandi, or Carlton, I could care less. These 3 women are all vicious in their own ways, and I can’t decide in what order either. Brandi is crazy and needs psychological help, and she is extremely mean spirited. How could anyone EVER call that woman a friend? She doesn’t know the… Read more »
I personally agree with Lisa on this one. I read a comment that said she was in her 50’s why should anyone stand up for her?? Well my rebuttal to that is, it doesn’t matter your age. If your friends or frenemies, you stand up for those people. Especially when those people have already told you, being loyal and standing up for, is important. So let’s just tell the truth and say Kyle always assumes the worse when it comes to even the smallest things. Kyle and Lisa have history, and that history should be respected. Brandi and Kyle sitting… Read more »