Lea Black is taking to her Bravo Blog to discuss her conversation with Adriana de Moura about reconciling their friendship. Lea explains why she may not be able to make her friendship with Adriana go back to the way it was, because she can’t undo the hurt Adriana caused her. Lea says Adriana is used to deception.
Lea writes, “Maybe people don’t agree with my feelings toward Adriana, but I’d rather take a stand than be popular. You just don’t get to rip my son’s heart out, try to turn my friends against me (people I introduced you to), lie to me for years, accept help under false pretenses, falsely accuse me for months on end that I gave the newspaper your marriage license, join the hate club, come in my home and yell and scream at me, snub me at every turn (even in my own home), then try to turn it all around on me and play the victim — all while wrongly accusing me of a fake name and a secret marriage. All this, just because I didn’t overlook or enable your bad behavior. And let’s not forget being silent during the character assassination at last year’s reunion. (Stay tuned, you may be surprised to find who all was plotting that…)
And why was she silent? It really was deafening for someone who called herself a friend. Thinking back, her perception of me not cheering on her slap, or suggesting to her perhaps she shouldn’t have provocatively danced in a thong on national television in front of a see-through door, or told her she shouldn’t have accused a cast member of giving a blow job on national television was interpreted by her as me not taking her side or me judging her. All of those things that I said and advice I gave her was in her best interest. Isn’t that what real friends do — encourage you to do the right thing and when necessary try to save you from yourself? So what if I’m not an enabler? I won’t apologize for that. And I now see that she prefers to be surrounded by enablers. Oh, and those who rush to enable –shocking. Some people either live in denial or just turn a blind eye. God forbid anyone take a stand.
She is used to deception –after all, she’s lived it for five years. Others may justify it or enable it, but it is what it is. The truth is she’s lied to everyone, including you, for 5 years. All of those conversations with her “fiancé” were simply lies. That’s the ugly truth.”
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