Kim DePaola is taking to her blog to talk about this week’s episode of The Real Housewives of New Jersey. With a more prominent role in season 5, Kim admits she is portrayed as the villain, and says she will wear that title proudly. Kim insists she would never break up a marriage, and the story of Melissa’s alleged infidelities were not hers to tell. Kim even says she doesn’t believe Melissa cheated on Joe!
Kim writes, “Just to set the record straight with regards to the tweet Melissa references at the Waterside lunch; I was personally with Teresa when she wrote it, and she was genuinely thrilled for her sister-in-lawâ€™s book deal! Melissa is even going to be doing a book signing at Posche this summer!
I had to laugh at my girls Teresa and Jacqueline fighting on speaker phone at the boutique. I love them both, but they sounded more like an ex-married couple arguing, not ex-girlfriends! I think everyone will be pleasantly surprised as to what the season has in store for their relationship.
Now onto yours truly! After this episode, you will clearly see that I have obviously been established as â€œthe villainâ€ of the season! Iâ€™ll own it proudly! After all, things do just fall into my lap!Â
FYI: If anyone lives up in our area of North Jersey and has not been to the new Bellissimoâ€™s, I highly recommend it! Definitely one of my new favorite restaurants and such gorgeous decor! First just to clarify, I was not calling the waiter cute. Not saying that he was not a good-looking man, but I was actually making reference to a picture on my phone of a guy I had recently met at the time. I am now single, and will address the unfortunate circumstances of that situation in a later blog. To address how I know Jan: a very dear friend of mine who has known her for years introduced us. Jan owns a salon called Teeze, which has headed up hair and makeup for my models at a recent Posche fashion show. Teresa had just started marketing her Milania Hair Care products and was looking for salons in the area to start carrying the line. My friend and I both felt that Teeze would be a great fit. As for Penny, she is also a salon owner and hairdresser whom I have known for years. She and Jan are friendly as they run in similar circles. The initial purpose of the meeting was for Teresa to pitch the Milania line to Jan and Penny and also to personally invite them to her launch party. Teresa started reminiscing with Jan when we sat down at the table to catch up on old times. That is when Jan admitted that Melissa was no longer her friend. From what Jan had told me in the past, she was upset with Melissa for not acknowledging or supporting her new business venture (Teeze), and also for ultimately casting her aside as a friend. Bottom line: Jan was hurt. At the time, I was more than â€œnot too fondâ€ of Melissa for reasons that have at this point been made very clear. As I previously stated, we are in a good place now. However, this was a girls night out. What do girls typically do on a night out? Gossip. Jan took the conversation to a place none of us expected it to go. We sat and listened. It was not my story.
Onto the lunch with Melissa and the woman I like to refer to in the rest of my blogs as â€œthe realtorâ€. Where do I begin? Should I start with the Warpaint collection of MAC cosmetics she was showcasing, or the â€œmacaroni and cheethâ€ that was apparently so delicious she barely came up for air?! And I should state that Montville is a beautiful and very affluent town. Most people would kill to live there. Not sure why the realtor would tell Melissa she should be living anywhere else. As far as the â€œcheating on your huthbandâ€ goesâ€¦(is it just me or does she sound like she has marbles in her mouth when she speaks?) maybe at the time you could say I did have it out for Melissa because of what she did with regards to my business. However, I Â would never look to break up a marriage. This story came out and I sat back and listened. As I said it was not MY story. Teresa however, did not just sit back and listen. She was uncomfortable with the discussion and what you do not see is that she actually got up from the table. She did not want any part of it PERIOD.
Onto Portobelloâ€™sâ€¦Let me first say that everyone who lives in my town goes to Portobelloâ€™s. So for those who may ask what I was doing there the same night as the Gorgas, Wakiles, and Lauritas? It was a cold Friday night in the middle of winter. I took my mom, my assistant, and her friend down the street for a few drinks and a bite to eat. I had no idea whatsoever they would be there. The place was packed.
I was quite displeased to hear Joeâ€™s comment about â€œwomen who do not have men that love them.â€ A man does not define who a woman is. Only she can do that herself. A womanâ€™s happiness should have nothing to do with not having the love from a man. When I am called over to the table, you see Jacqueline holding her nose. She is a jokester and was only kidding. We are very close and she likes to bust on me. She threw the napkin so that Melissa and I would stop arguing. And by the way, it was very refreshing to hear how much Richie loves me!
In reference to the â€œcoincidencesâ€, they are not coincidental. I said it on the reunion and I will say it again: The circumstances were simply convenient. Anyone in my life can tell you that I know A LOT of people. People do talk and are always telling me things. Do I believe everything I hear? No, absolutely not, but that doesnâ€™t always stop information from getting out. I was not looking for â€œa pass.â€ Did not ask for one, did not want one. Kathy asks why I didnâ€™t shut the conversation down at Bellissimoâ€™s when it turned ugly. Maybe that would have been the right thing to do. However, as most of you do know by now I have a devilish side in me and I cannot always help that! I can say that going forward I will try my hardest and work on it!Â
What you do not see when Joe asks me if I think Melissa cheated on him is that I actually say: â€œNo, I donâ€™t think she cheated. â€ I will repeat, I would never wish to break up a marriage. Like Melissa says, they are â€œun-f*ckin-breakableâ€ and I do firmly believe that. And I had to smile during the interview when Melissa tells me to â€œgo jump off the GWâ€, (all in good humor) because she is wearing our Mittmi coral minidress from Posche! Looks great on you, Melis!!
Finally, doesnâ€™t Teresa look beautiful in our Alice + Olivia red tweed jacket? She has been such a supporter to Posche over the years and I truly appreciate her loyalty. I do have to ask: What else would this realtor do to get a listing? And wait, WHO is the â€œsh*tstarterâ€?? Think someone needs to take a good, long look in the mirror. She is FAR from innocent and thatâ€™s all Iâ€™ll say about that for the momentâ€¦”
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