Dorinda Medley Finds Out Her Cast Mates Were Talking Badly About Her Boyfriend John


This week on The Real Housewives of New York City, Dorinda Medley found out that her friends Ramona Singer and LuAnn de Lesseps were saying some not so nice things about her boyfriend John Mahdessian.

As Ramona is sitting on Dorinda’s lap at dinner and kissing her on the cheek, LuAnn points out that Dorinda called her and revealed that Ramona hadn’t been very nice to her.

“Oh. No, no, no. I thought you weren’t very nice to John,” Dorinda clarifies. “But I thought she said you said it?” she asks LuAnn.

“She did say that I said it, which is a total lie,” the Countess says. “We both said things about John.”

“I don’t lie,” Ramona insists to LuAnn. “We know you do lie.”

“We had a conversation, Ramona and I, about things we don’t like about John,” LuAnn explains in her confessional. “But this conversation was meant to be between us, but of course it circled back to Dorinda and she called me.”

Ramona continues, “You said something to me and I’m not going to repeat it and I told it to her and she’s upset.”

“Of course Ramona conveniently left herself out of the story,” LuAnn vents. “Ramona is quick to place the blame always on someone else.”

Dorinda jumps in, “You said that LuAnn made a statement about John and I woke up in the morning and I was really upset about it. At this point in my life I’m 50-years old… I don’t want to hear it. I don’t talk about what you do or what you do…”

“I can’t figure out what is this over-observing of John,” Dorinda vents in her interview. “He’s like a creature in the wild that they’ve seen for the first time. They’re like did you see his mating habits and his eating habits. I’m not even that focused on John Mahdessian.”

“It’s none of anyone’s goddamn business,” Dorinda tells the table as John returns from the restroom, but Ramona continues to poke LuAnn.

“So why would you say something about her boyfriend to me?” she asks. “Don’t talk to me about Dorinda and her relationships. Shut your freakin’ mouth!”

“What you told Dorinda happened, never happened,” LuAnn insisted. “You can drive somebody to tears and just expect to wipe your hands clean.”

Heather Thomson adds, “Everyone is shaking their heads about John and Dorinda behind her back, that’s for sure, but it doesn’t mean you have to throw it in her face.”

Dorinda explains in her interview, “At the end of the day Ramona was just using LuAnn as her scapegoat.”

“Ramona is not going to ruin this dinner party, ok?” LuAnn tells the group.

Watch the show highlight below.

Photo Credit: Bravo



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  • One Rotten Egg

    That Dorinda is one smart lady–she smells BS and calls it.

  • Aunt Bee

    Correct Egg. Why would those two “ladies” do this to Dorinda at a dinner in her honor ????
    Ramona is an idiot and LuAnn should have shut it down. I felt sorry for Dorinda and John. This was definitely not CLASSY.

  • Tippy

    I like Dorinda. They’re all just grumpy as they don’t have a boyfriend.

  • apple

    OK…So Ramona and LuAnn discussed John…and Dorinda’s relationship with him…and it was less than complimentary torward John. People do that. They talk…especially when they do not like someone or something. But Ramona decided to tell Dorinda about this discussion and completely leave her part in it out of the story. There was absolutely no good that could have come from Ramona telling Dorinda that LuAnn doesn’t like her boyfriend…she just does these things to hurt other people….to knock them down a peg. She is nasty…and every year I hope she isn’t asked back. This year, because of her recent marital problems, everyone is hoping she has changed. She has not…and most probably, she never will. She should go.

  • Cricri1963

    What a couple of classless hags! The hurt look on Dorina’s face, and the embarrassed look on John’s face made me cringe. There was no reason to do that. It started with Ramona. Luann also should have shut it down and said they would discuss it later. How would Ramona like it if Mario was brought up at her birthday dinner? Oh wait, he was! And she said she didn’t want to talk about it at her birthday dinner. Yet she does this to her friend on HER birthday dinner. Ugh!!!

  • starr sabga

    These ladies are back to their nonsense—not that it ever stopped. He said, she said, you said just creates confusion. Ramona did wrong reporting back to Dorinda about Luann, especially as she was just as much to blame. That was under handed. But then, that’s what they all do at some level or another. Live & let live.