Cynthia Bailey and Husband Peter Thomas Are No Longer Together


RHOA star Cynthia Bailey has some shocking news about her marriage to Peter Thomas. Bailey is revealing that they are definitely no longer together.

“The status of our relationship is we are not in a good place. Peter is in Charlotte, and as you can see, I’m in New York,” Cynthia told The Daily Dish. “We’re definitely not together. I have been taking some time for myself to just kind of figure out how I would like to move forward. We haven’t officially done anything at this point, but we are definitely talking about taking steps to officially move forward in a different direction.”

Although it seemed they were doing better towards the end of filming RHOA, that doesn’t mean their marriage was better. “Jamaica was fun. We had a good time together. Just because we are having issues don’t mean we can’t have a good time together. I’ve been with this man for eight years. We can certainly figure out how to have a good time in Jamaica or any beautiful island,” Cynthia said. “So Jamaica was good, but it didn’t change issues that we were still dealing with.”

Cynthia said that she and Peter were having problems before the infamous video was released, but it certainly “didn’t help the situation,” especially because of how public it became. “In terms of the video, it was just embarrassing and just unnecessary and reckless on his part. And that’s part of the issue that we have as, you know, I feel like as husband and wife, you have to protect each other,” she explained. “Something like that, in his mind, was small, but it was huge to me, because it just lives on, and I’m always having to defend it and defend him. And it’s not my stuff. He did this. Why do I have to be stuck with defending it?”

“I’ve never thought that Peter has cheated on me. I don’t believe. And that doesn’t mean it’s not true. But I just don’t believe when I was seeing [the video],” she said. “Now I don’t know about today. That’s a whole different situation. We’re not talking that much now. When all that stuff was out there, I never believed that he actually cheated on me.”

Cynthia is still baffled about why Porsha Williams brought up rumors about Peter’s infidelity at the RHOA reunion. “I think it’s kind of almost weird at this point that Porsha has so much time to focus on my relationship with Peter. It’s one thing to just kind of throw out there one thing that you want to say or what you think, but it’s been like a couple of years now that she’s been kind of running with the Peter cheating rumor and with no evidence, that I have seen, to back any of it up,” Cynthia said. “Like, it’s not her life, it’s not her marriage, it’s not her husband. Why does she care to this degree?”

“She should probably get some new material, especially since it doesn’t look like we’re going to make it,” Cynthia said. “So I don’t know what she’s going to run with going forward. That part of her mission is gonna be over soon.”

As far as Peter’s feelings about the marriage Cynthia said he isn’t going to go down without a fight. “I think he’s definitely the kind of man that’s not gonna go out without a fight. And part of that is great and romantic,” she said. “However, there just comes a point where you just gotta really think about what you’re fighting for. Like, fighting to just fight for something is not always smart. At some point, you just gotta know when to be all in. You gotta know when to be all out. And I’m an all in kind of girl when I’m all in. I think that’s been clear since I met him, but once I go the other direction, then I gotta walk toward the other direction.”

“I feel like I’ve given it all I can do at this point. Now I’m just giving it up to God. My heart is just telling me it’s just time to move on. That’s what my heart is telling me now. In two weeks, if my heart tells me something different, then I’ll deal with it at that time.”

“I will always love Peter. The love will always be there. I appreciate the sacrifices that we’ve gone through. It’s made me so much stronger. I will always respect what we have together,” she said. “However, respectfully, I just want to be happy, and I want him to be happy. And if Peter being happy and Cynthia being happy doesn’t mean that we can be happy together, then I’m OK with that.”

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35 Replies to “Cynthia Bailey and Husband Peter Thomas Are No Longer Together”

  1. Some of these blgs are getting to be so boring they are unreadable. I don’t particularly like Cynthia but she will be far better off without Patricia. He really is a mouldy peach!

      1. Yeah and I saw this coming… as soon as they aired her and Nene patching things up, I knew that meant Cynthia was planning her exit from marriage Peter. However, in defense of the blogs it is News to me that she is admitting publicly that she has nothing left to give to the marriage. I suspect he will weasel his way back in for one more season though!

    1. AGREED!!! This headline is starting to become as monotonous as reading about Shannon and David’s relationship. It’s the same crap over, and over, and over, and over…well, you get the point 😀

  2. Patricia!! lol you’re really rippin them out tonite 😉 xo

    Poor Cynthia. Could she finally be willing to see baldy for who he really is? Really?! After onlyyy 8 years? She’s quick ain’t she?

  3. I think Cynthia talks out of both sides of her mouth. She said Jamaica was a turning point for her marriage, in one of her diary interviews. Now she says that is not the case. Even tho it was quite apparent she was separated from her husband, she said that was not the case…now it is the case. Sigh. And as far as Porshe goes, Cynthia seems baffled that Porshe has so much time to focus on Cynthia’s marriage…for heaven’s sake, does Cynthia think she is so interesting that Porshe just spends hours and hours on a daily basis thinking about Cynthia and her marriage? For heaven’s sake, we all form opinions based on information we have streaming thru our daily lives…we do not stop everything for hours just to think about a certain situation like a ‘friends’ marriage troubles. Cynthia needs to get over herself…she is not as fabulous as she seems to think she is. Not in my opinion anyway. I find her extremely disingenuous and very self-centered and vain.

    1. Yes. This “change a day” way she looks is stupid. She looks like one of those dolls, can’t think of the brand, at this reunion. Her cheeks have a round spot of blush that is so so phony. No one has skin that color unless it’s rosacea. And it doesn’t form in perfect round splotches. She is another one who believes the physical is more important than the spiritual. And Peter, GAG.

  4. I know that Peter left his managing editor job at a magazine a while back, I think financially he will be okay. His restaurant in Charlotte (that he co-owns with Kordell Stewart) is thriving: looks like a simple formula of sports food, theme nights and sports related events has been working well for them for a while now. I had to endure a trip there with a relative, we attended a traditional Southern Sunday brunch there and it was fine. Cynthia, btw, has a pre-nup.

        1. He is no more gay than my Hubs. ( and he certainly isn’t) but Patricia is an asshole to women so the only name I would give him is a misogynist! Well apart from mouldy peach! Xoxo

      1. Peter is not gay. If anything he’s that stereotypical tall island guy who’s overly flirtatious with the ladies-though I actually don’t believe he’s cheating, I’ve just always thopught that he and Cynthia don’t appear to be equally yoked. I do know that Porsha sounded like a complete fool saying that Peter pays his waitresses in “penis”. What waitress in the 21st century do you know is taking penis for payment when there is rent, car note, and groceries, college (and possibly a child) to pay for? Please….just more ridiculousness for the sake of having a catchy soundbite that will start trending on the web.

        1. Porsha says these things because she has traded sexual favors for things all her life. So inside her horsehead; yeah, that’s how you get things.

  5. Cynthia does not know & cannot see yet how fortunate she is to be free of Peter. She deserves so much better & when she ends up with better, she will find true happiness.

  6. I don’t know if it is true or not about Peter cheating. Having said that I do not believe a word that comes out of Porsha’s mouth. She is the type of person to get revenge. She will throw something out but no proof to substantiate it.

  7. I hope Cynthia chooses her next love interest with discretion and elevates her standards. If domestic isn’t working, perhaps go international and for heavens sake, no struggling middle aged men!

    Regarding Porsha, she is uninteresting whose only intellectual contribution is to perpetuate gossip.

    1. If if Cynthia can’t find a. Black man, then find you a white man, 🙂 add some. Leche to your mocha girl lol lol

  8. Is Cynthia in need of a storyline so she has a spot next season? Maybe the reason she is back to being friends with Nene again!

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