Exclusive Details: Ana Quincoces, Lea Black Feud, Robert Rodriguez Speaks Out

Ana, Robert, Kati, Beba

The Real Housewives of Miami Season 2 Reunion kicked off Thursday night and there was instant friction between Lea Black and Ana Quincoces, but most viewers were confused what had happened between filming and the Reunion? Well now we have some insight! Ana’s ex-husband, Robert Rodriguez is speaking out for the first time ever, to iRealHousewives!

Robert tells iRealHousewives of Ana’s feud with Lea, “Let me first get some housekeeping details out of the way that really have nothing to do with my breaking the silence all season.

Ana and Lea. Seriously folks is this really even an issue?! The two names in the same sentence is an oxymoron. It’s like good and evil. Silk and sandpaper. Day and night. Ying and Yang. Young and old. When I’m approached in the street and asked about a rift between the two I usually respond by stating there has to be two to tango. There is no comparison and there never ever will be one. Ana has studied and become a professional, raised two incredible women (Kati is going to law school after having been accepted by 4 and counting – scholarships too and Beba is in college while simultaneously producing film projects in the commercial market), maintained a business and household and shifted gears to follow and realize another set of dreams. All this while standing on one leg, juggling 3 chainsaws and whistling Dixie in b flat minor!

I only know two things about Lea: 1. that her last name is Black……or wait, is that her heart…..;and 2. that she went after my girls many times referring to them as potty mouths and inappropriate and that simply isn’t very cool. Kids are off limits in all arenas. Especially in those social circles wherein piranhas reside – you know the ones. I believe they call them “galas” and “luncheons”. It’s where people that are bored and find themselves spent and haggard go to show others how philanthropic they are and caring for the less fortunate.

I’ve heard the comments and read the blogs. I also have seen the inexplicable reactions to when Ana uses the term “socially awkward” to defend our daughters and not to describe this woman’s son who she has never met. Shame on the viewers for assuming it’s the kid- perhaps it is they who see him that way. Ana was simply defending her daughters from the numerous times Lea called them inappropriate and questioned our family dynamic and dinner conversations-frankly it’s none of her business. She should go back to focusing on her “charity”. Perhaps the viewers should wonder why the giant file Ana took to the reunion was never shown and what I hear was quite the cross examination which left Lea weepy and unable to recover not aired. Can you say injunction? Makes you wonder. I heard Adrianna dubbed Ana “Ana Cojones” instead of Ana Quincoces after the reunion. I think after the way she took on Thomas Kramer and then Lea- it’s quite appropriate.”

All Things RH- I’m going to add some EXCLUSIVE information to this story that my sources have shared with me, and it pretty much matches up with what Robert is saying. According to US Weekly, Ana Quincoces called Lea Black’s Gala “an exercise in vanity.” However, when watching the Reunion, that part didn’t air, along with some other important information! My sources tell me that Lea was attacking Ana’s family off-camera and told everyone, including the producers she was coming for Ana at the Reunion. So when Ana got wind of this, she came prepared to fire back at Lea with information about her gala (aka, what’s in the folder she’s holding). If you look at the picture below from the Reunion you will see Ana holding a folder with a bunch of documents. My sources have told me, EXCLUSIVELY, that Ana took Lea down at the Reunion with questions regarding financial information about her gala, and she never recovered while continuing to tape, which is why Lea appeared emotional throughout the Reunion. My insider also reveals that all the other women were completely shocked by Ana’s information (remember she IS a lawyer!), but we don’t see that, because Bravo edited it out. I’m guessing due to threats of a lawsuit.

Ana Papers

Back to Robert:

“Now, on to the real reason why I have decided to break my silence just now:

I made it a point not to interfere or, for that matter, even watch RHOM. I always considered the show Ana’s baby. My involvement, along with the girls, was to make sure that the message came through loud and clear that we were and remain a family. God, it sounds like I’m Mrs. Doubtfire doesn’t it?

A 23 year marriage is nothing to sneeze at, folks. It was hard, fun, easy, testing….. it was all worth it! Ana and I were and are nothing like the couples that have been involved in a reality series. We broke the mold for what a marriage should be and we broke the mold again when we decided to end the legality of it. Read those last words again: the legality of it. We will never be unmarried as I see it. (I know the English here is horrible but come on man, I’m writing with my heart and not my head.)

In this next paragraph you are named “Timmy.” You see Timmy, when you have children with someone you don’t go at each other’s throats and hate each other. You are connected for life and that’s just the way things have to be. You don’t beat your ex and humiliate them in the eyes of your kids and your friends. You respect them and you love them in a different manner than you were used to, Timmy.

I believe that many of you think that I have been way too comical in my approach to the season and the results. You’re right. Can anyone say “defense mechanism”? I’m naturally the funny guy in the room and that’s just how I am. My nonchalant approach was to bring levity to a heavy situation. I was destroyed when my marriage to Ana ended. I still am and am truly scarred by the whole thing. When you marry someone you don’t think to yourself that you’ll be getting divorced. No, you marry for life, right? So the way I see it I failed and let my family down. Right. Wrong. Indifferent. It’s the way I feel about it and it’s mine to own. This is how you should all react in terms of owning your actions and reactions. Will Ana and I find happiness again? No clue, but that’s life isn’t it? No clue of what comes next.

I like the tact and respect that the people from POP and Bravo exercised when filming my family. They knew my stated goal regarding harmony and love between me, Ana and the girls. I hope you guys got the gist of it all and learned. I hope you all realized why I was attracted and ended up marrying Ana in the first place –she’s been like that since the first day I was taken aback by her. She’s been a role model to my girls and now, hopefully, for some of you that have seen her poise, grace, charm and stinging wit – you all know she’s different from the other cast members; I’m told this every day when stopped in the street. I hope that you all get to see more of who this fascinating person is so that you can learn to appreciate what I did for 23 years and counting (just in a different way).

That’s it Timmy. Go and spread the news that Ana is better than the invention of the wheel. If you don’t I’ll have to spread BBQ sauce all over my……


What started the feud between Ana and Lea appeared to of happened in a Bravo Blog Lea Black wrote after the incident at Thomas Kramer’s dinner party. Click here to read what Lea said about Ana’s family, if you missed it.

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36 Replies to “Exclusive Details: Ana Quincoces, Lea Black Feud, Robert Rodriguez Speaks Out”

  1. Wow not even sure what I just read. So Ana is after Lea cuz Lea made some comments about the family or cuz she heard Lea was coming for her?

    1. I never realized the woman was a laywer…interresting that intelligent women are taking part in this “show”. But she did not last long.

    2. Ana Quincoces and roberto Rodriguez are pathetic retards trying to bully Lea they think being conveyancing clerks somehow grants them some clout … Silly idiots.
      Bullying us the tool of the weak and incompetent who like them feel lacking and envious of lea’s husband I guess . Go back to selling houses and Ana cover yourself! Exposing your breasts to all asunder betrays your lack if class!

  2. It is sad that all these Housewives franchises revolve around catfights and these beautiful women acting like chained monkeys who always want to kill each other. These shows would be so much more interesting if they filmed these women separate from one another and focused on their jobs, talents and family. Instead Bravo seems to delight in getting them boozed up then hoping for cockfights. Sad because it makes all women look like idiots.

  3. I like Anna. She actually id my favorite hw. Beautiful intelligent daughters.
    However, to the Ex husband, Richard. You are a joke. Anna doesnt need you to come to her defense. You havent even been part of this program except to usecand abuse Anna. And now you come singing her praise. Really? If she is all that to you why did you walk out on your 23 yr marriage. The couple times you have been shown you act like you are about 16 yrs old. Anna is so deserving of a Real Man not a boy. Go back to your girlfriend and take your laundry wuth you.

  4. Robert, so respect you for coming forward and showing us your honesty and how much you truly do love Ana. I admire your Ana so very much and tweet her often. I was very upset to see her being attacked and practically threatened to have personal io released by Lea. Very distasteful. I am worried about the next part of the reunion as I fear Ana is going to have to defend herself again. She is wonderful and I see why you love her as you do. All my best wishes for you, Shawn

  5. Robert, on camera I always perceived you as an unsentimental insensitive prick who was more concerned with making a joke (if they can even be called that, they were pretty terrible) than showing your ex wife that you cared for her. Why should I listen to anything you have to say at all?

  6. I agree with dawn . Roberto made Ana look so bad on tv. And disrespected her and claims they had a great marriage, but still got divorced? Your pathetic! This coming from someone that’s been happily married for 20 yrs. and not being forty yet.My husband when he saw you with Ana crying and you making jokes ,he was disgusted.

  7. Ppl obviously do not get Robert & Anas sense of humor. He is doing the right thing by Ana for standing up for her and finally speaking out and defending her! Especially since Lea Black (who is irrelevant and old) made accusations about their daughters! Robert is a good guy who was mis understood on the show, imo. I wish my parents who had a nasty divorce could have a friendship like Ana and Robert. They set a great example for what parents SHOULD ACT LIKE AFTER DIVORCE!

  8. Roberto you have two beautiful daughters . And the way they saw how their father treat their mother is how they will allow their men to treat them.

  9. I really like Ana and Robert. Always have from the start. Even though they may never be remarried, I think they will always be close…..shame more divorced couples in our society can’t be this way.

  10. Wait-Ana slams this guy on national TV & virtually guarantees that he won’t be able to get clients, and his beef is with Lea? Am I crazy or is it NEVER appropriate to ask your father if he & his girlfriend have anal sex?! I agree (if Lea said) those girls have potty mouths. Their dinner conversation & the preparation H / sex talk was disgusting. I can’t believe that as parents & attorneys they didn’t want their obviously young daughters to behave a little more classy. National tv. Hello?! I would’ve been mortified if my kids talked like that to me, at any age. Class up & get some manners.

  11. It was very nice of you Robert to put this all in print. Women love a man that will stand up and be heard in support of them. Most men would just not get involved at all due to their own fears. I’m sure Ana would say you didn’t have to do this but thank you anyway. Maybe you have begun to pave the way for men to stand up and support their women.

  12. Who cares about Ana!? She won’t be on next season. She calls Lea old!? Does Ana know she’s OLD!!! Lea is a classy lady. Ana’s just jealous. She married a freak. Her daughters are classless!!!

  13. robert, robert, robert, you are the quintessential broken man, if ana is so great, y r u divorced. Pleeeeease. I dont believe a word of what you say here. She bit your balls off spit them out on national tv and u r still defending this bully?? As far as the “envelope” this is supposed to be a fun, not to be taken too seriously kind of show, but your Ana brought it to another level. as far as i see it, lea is the lady here, and yes your daughters are spoiled brats with a trash mouth. So u keep defending her. Shes a lawyer, ha! Good luck with that not so hot bitch of a bully ex wife of yours. She should learn how to respect and talk to people. She looked horrible and whats with the gold glow?

  14. Go Ana. So glad someone finally stood up to the self-righteous Lea. Her annual charity event is not about charity but an overblown vanity project that is all about Lea. The other ladies are scared of her some reason. I loved the way Ana did not back down to her.

  15. The only one with class is Ana. Also the only normal looking one. Anna nobody can judge you. They have never walked in your shoes. You are the only one with self respect. You are beautiful inside and out. Robert is a gentleman for defending you., Wishing you all the best. Hope the family stays close. 🙂

  16. Robert, Robert, Robert, I don’t believe for one second that Ana was not speaking of Lea’s son when she made the socially awkward comment. Ana tried to come off as being level headed and nice on the show but I think she can be just as vindictive as some of the others. Their daughters do have potty mouths. Lea is not innocent in this at all, but to sit and say Ana, this and Ana that. She stated people were using the word bullying in the wrong sense. Wonder why, oh wait, she she doesn’t look like the bully she is. SMH. People that live in glass houses.

  17. I don’t believe this crap for one second, and I have to say you come across just as crazy as Ana! You’re kids are adults and they are fair game when they put their lives on TV! GROW UP!

  18. I agree with everyone else. YOU put your family on national television. Therefore, they are open to criticism. Yes, Lea is correct. Your children have potty mouths and should have NEVER said things like that on NATIONAL TELEVISION! Now, you LAWYERS want to bring down Roy and Lea’s charity. Why? Because they probably overspent on special guests, food and entertainment. They probably fudged some numbers for publicity. So what? The Blacks continue to fund a number of small charities throughout South Florida that desperately needed the donations. Ana used to be my favorite on the show. Now she needs to worry about herself, stop defending Marysol, badgering Lea, and move on her life. Also, teach your kids how to conduct themselves on television. They obviously aren’t smart enough to know how to edit themselves.

  19. I agree with everyone else. YOU put your family on national television. Therefore, they are open to criticism. Yes, Lea is correct. Your children have terrible mouths and should have NEVER said things like that on NATIONAL TELEVISION! Now, you want to bring down Roy and Lea’s charity. Why? The Blacks continue to fund a number of small charities throughout South Florida that desperately needed the donations. Ana used to be my favorite on the show. Now she needs to worry about herself, stop defending Marysol, badgering Lea, and move on her life. Also, teach your kids how to conduct themselves on television. They obviously aren’t smart enough to know how to edit themselves.

  20. Robert, you are a douche. The conversations that you have with your girls, on camera, are what put them on display as “potty mouths”. I would have said something stronger like, perverted or trashy about all 4 of you when you talked about you having anal sex with your girlfriend. Your are a classless family!

    BTW, that clunk that you heard after your letter was revealed was the sound of viewers clicking on the Mute button, when you or Ana come on the TV. Who the hell do you think you are lecturing any of us?

  21. Glad to hear the truth from Robert!
    Sounds like Lea’s Star Island mansion and personal assistant were being paid for by the Blacks Annual Gala funds. Scandalous!!!!!

    Glad to see someone who is smart like Anna call Lea out on all her BS.
    She is a mean woman.

    Too bad Bravo was afraid of a lawsuit and to expose the aged reality star for her mischievous fund raising.

  22. The only thing I hope is that Lea will be back next year and not Ana. Ana is boring. Lea is not. Don’t care about all this information. Who cares? No one knows them. It’s all entertainment TV.

  23. Robert, you don’t think we actually believe the things you’re saying about Ana, do you? You’re describing a saint, and we all know Ana is the opposite of that. Did Ana force you to come to her defense? Obviously she scares you – we all can see that on TV. Ana is not only a bully, she’s an irritating one at that. She treats Marysol like Marysol has no backbone ~ pleeeease Ana, get off the show. You’re a bore! Your daughters do have trashy mouths – Lea was speaking the truth. #teamLea

  24. Someone, PLEASE place Ana in front of a mirror!!! Does she realize, “she ain’t no spring chicken herself”!!! Or at least she looks much older with her orange hued leather skin! WTF does she think she is? And Robert, if Ana is “all that and a bag o’chips”, then y aren’t U still married to saint Ana, pray tell???
    Grow a set Robert ;~)

  25. Im dying to know what dirt Anna has on Lea in that folder.
    Must be something pretty awful about Lea. Anna kept mentioning fraud during the show.

  26. and yet Robert you divorced her, and it did not matter what wa in the file! Guess you couldn’t keep that zipper up!

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