After the dinner party from hell on The Real Housewives of Miami, Ana Quincoces is taking to her Bravo Blog to discuss what happened, and how she felt after watching the episode. She talks about the way Thomas Kramer treated her, how she handled the situation, and her decision to leave the dinner. Read what Ana said below!
Ana writes, “A popular Cuban â€œdichoâ€ (saying) is dime con quien andas y te dirÃ© quien eres. Which means tell me who your friendsÂ are and Iâ€™ll tell you who you are. One would be hard pressed to find a situation where this is more poignant.
This season, there have been moments that have made me smile, others that have made me cringe, and even some that have made me more than a little proud.Â I will take permission to relish in that pride because I earned it.
I have never had anything handed to me. Everything I have, I earned as a result of my own hard work and perseverance. I am not criticizing those who have been handed silver platters galore, I am just pointing out that Iâ€™m not one of them. Hard work builds character, plain and simple. One of the reasons I enjoy Lisa so much is because she makes no qualms about her lifestyle and acknowledges that she lives a privileged life because she was lucky enough to fall in love with a gifted plastic surgeon. She told me the story of her grandmotherâ€™s premonition about her living a charmedÂ life and how it turned out to be true. I am happy for Lisa and have always appreciated her honesty. But she knows who she is â€“ she knows what her strengths are and uses them accordingly.
I have never judged a man by the size of his wallet. Whatâ€™s more, there is rarely a correlation between oneâ€™s bank accountÂ and oneâ€™s contribution to this planet. I am afraid for those who believe there is. I am humored by those who claim to have standards and a code of behavior and then flounder all over the place seeking acceptance (and perhaps a potential defendant) by trying to provide the popular opinion. Youâ€™re not irreverent and clever by being loud and overbearing; you are just loud and overbearing.
Viewers are smarter than people give them creditÂ for. They see through the false adulation, the contrived friendships, and the faux wisdom. People know the difference between those of us who have â€œdone the work,â€ and those of us who are just pimping silly wares for the sake of vanity in an embarrassingly amateurish â€œTrumpesqueâ€ manner.
A quick google search of our illustrious dinner host will reveal all the reasons why no one should willingly socialize with him.Â I only wish I had done the research sooner. A quick perusal of a self-created and self-promoted pilot shows Mr. Kramer proudly stating â€œMarriage is for people who canâ€™t afford a housekeeper or a prostituteâ€ and his daughter Joya sharing that her father is â€œattention-seeking, pathetic, and embarrassingâ€ and â€œhosts pimp and swinger partiesâ€. Did someone call this man â€œgraciousâ€?
I donâ€™t believe there was a choice involved in my decision to leave that dinner party. It was the ONLY decision and the only choice for a mother whose daughters deem her a role model.
Thanks for watching and for the hundreds of supportive tweets and emails. I will always strive to handle the situations with which I am faced with grace and dignity. I may not always succeed, but I will never stop trying.”
Lea Black also had a lot to say about Ana and her family after the incident at Thomas’ house. She wrote in her Bravo Blog, “And of course, more “Karentland” bashing byÂ Ana. Always so gratuitous with her uncalled for malicious gossip. Relevance, anyone? And she pointed outÂ KarentÂ “won’tÂ hangÂ out with just anyone, only people that bring her attention,” as she continues toÂ bad mouth TK while entering his home and drinking his $1,000 a bottle wine and eating his home cooked gourmet meal. And she was so “offended” by his asking us all to change the subject and have a good time. I’m trying to distinguish betweenÂ being judgmental about aÂ dinnerÂ partyÂ where adults speak about problems and conflict versus a dinner table where families talk about “a— sex” and “com— on girls” and “barbeque on p—-s.” I’m just glad TK didn’t mention “wiping his —,” “picking his nose,” and “someoneâ€™s v—–” before preparing the meal. Confused anyone? Real outrage or phony outrage?
And what was the offending joke that so outraged “poor little” Ana? TK askedÂ LisaÂ if she had trouble stuffing her boobs in that dress. Now you have all seen and heard Lisa during this series… do you think for a second she was offended? Much of her conversation is about her boobs. Her home is the “house that boobs built.” Just check out her tagline. Letâ€™s get serious here. Lisa is proud of her figure and how her husband designed it. And why shouldnâ€™t she be? This is phony outrage if I have ever seen it.”
Tell Us- Do you believe Ana did the right thing by leaving? Is Lea out of line for what she said about Ana?
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